I sent naked pics to my boyfriend of 2 years on his bday only to find out I actually sent them to another guy instead. Both my bf and the guy are saved with just first names in my phone. I don't know the guy that well and I'm embarrassed because they were very explicit and full frontal. And like showing off what I got and what not. He deleted them (I made sure) but I don't want him telling people details about what he saw... What should I say to him? Or should I have my boyfriend say something instead?
How can you be sure he deleted them ? You can't is the answer, he could have forwarded them to his mates or put them on U tube. Even if he has deleted them you can not be sure he did not make a copy first !
Hello, as it's your first question on your first day of joining AB, you may well be seriously troubled by your existential problem, but alas I can't see you can do other than wait and think.
The old..oops i sent them to the wrong person excuse.
You dont know the guy that well...but have his first name only in your phone?
You like showing off what youve got...so is this some childish attempt to make you boyfriend jealous by letting this "stranger" see you in the nude?
You know what you did, so live with any consequences that may arise
If he does show them to anyone or tell anyone about them you'll just have to laugh it off. As you say you like showing off and you've certainly done that! Kicking up a fuss will just make the situation worse.
"Both my bf and the guy are saved with just first names in my phone"
if that's the case, the iPhone must have the only contacts file that allows multiple contacts all with identical names.
IPhone isn't the only mobile manufacturer. I have an android and have accidently created contacts with the same name for different people.
Anyway, there isn't much you can do. You've obviously spoken to him now you have to try and trust him. I would recommend you tell your bf what happened just in case.