i know butch it is embarrasing but i'm so effing high right now i don't care - tomorrow i will deny all knowledge of this thread and claim i left my pc open and someone else has posted this.
I was happy until the other half put one of my expensive glazed pots with a large fuschia in in on a plastic bin - which collapsed under the weight. One unholy mess.
Well it can stay like that, I'm going to play on the swings with the kids!