morning all

[yummymum]

still feeling crap and my head still messed up. how is everyone else

[jack daniels]

Taken a week off work & besides being on CB doing housework/chores.

sounds like you need some paracetamol & back to bed!

[Lakitu]

Just dandy, thank you.

[rinkins]

Just fandabydozy thanks x

Sorry to hear your not feeling good

[legendis.god]

Im good.

[funnygirl]

I am feeling good so far!!

We are half way through the week and things can only get better!! :-)

[yummymum]

i need more than that, i need a new man

[terambulan]

Get out and find one then.......plenty out there!

[funnygirl]

Yummy, just read your last post and I am very sorry to hear about your man!!

I hope your situation is sorted soon!

[jack daniels]

have you had it out with him? what decision have you reached if any?
How long had it been going on? unfortunately there's a lot of men that are "secretly in the closet" at the expense of their families.

[ummmm]

If you don't mind me asking yummy, how old are you?

[yummymum]

im 26. its been going on all the time we been together from what i can gather

[ummmm]

You are plenty young enough to start over. If you're brave enough. Although you are hurting life can be sooooo much better. I left a relationship for different reasons to you and found the thought of spliting worse than the reality and ended up wasting 2 years of my life being in a relationship that made me very unhappy. When I went.......life began again and I discovered how much fun it could be.

[rinkins]

Oh Ummmm, that's exactly what happened with me. Last year actually, didn't realise how much better I would feel being out of it....just got to find a better man now!

[rinkins]

Yummymum I'm sure you are going to be fine. Your children will give you strength x

[ummmm]

I found a better man, stayed with him for 8 years.

Now I've found an even better one and I can't remember ever being this happy :-)

[ummmm]

Be very careful.... :-) I'm a man magnet !!!

[MrBounty]

Am i the only one who would be at least a little bit more in shock about something like this happening?

I mean, i think i'd have more on my mind and more important things to do than come online to get responses from people i've never met!

For such a major incident in this person's life, she has only really hinted at the whole scenario.....which leads me to think that it's a thread or two to see what people will say.

Just my opinion, mind.....