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Mrs & Ms
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Am a widow and prefer to be titled Mrs rather than Ms. Ms is a lone female and denotes gender equality according to PC. I'm not comfortable with Ms be bandied globally about me whereas Mr gives no such value.
Am I unduly sensitive?
Am I unduly sensitive?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.As I always understood it, Ms does not necessarily mean lone female. It was initially brought in so that you could not differentiate between married or not married just by reading the title - as is the case with Mr. I am married but used to insist on being referred to as Ms. Now I am older, I realise there are far more important things to think about!
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Agree. Not too sensitive, you should be called what you wish to be addressed as and I think things have gone mad today with how we are guided. Never heard the word Ms years ago, the only thing I use it for is when writing letters when I don't know if the woman is married or not. Covers a multitude of sins in the hope you don't offend by calling a married woman Miss or vice versa.
If you mean people who don't know you call you Ms and you don't like it then yes a tad sensitive - it's seems a reasonably polite way to address a woman when you don't know her marital status. Once you've said you wish to be called Mrs then they should respect that I agree. I divorced many years ago, kept the surname but reverted to Ms. Miss on a more mature woman suggests lone female far more to me than Ms, had I been widowed I'm sure I would have kept the Mrs.
Who addresses you as Ms?
I'm trying to picture a scenario where people would be addressing you as such rather than assuming you were a Mrs and I'm just not coming up with one.
If you don't wear your wedding ring for whatever reason then strangers may assume you have not married and rather than call you Miss choose Ms, as a nod towards your maturity and a unsureness on their part of how to address an apparently unmarried lady of a certain age.
I'm trying to picture a scenario where people would be addressing you as such rather than assuming you were a Mrs and I'm just not coming up with one.
If you don't wear your wedding ring for whatever reason then strangers may assume you have not married and rather than call you Miss choose Ms, as a nod towards your maturity and a unsureness on their part of how to address an apparently unmarried lady of a certain age.