How Would You React?

[TWR]

Being accused of seeing a female friend whilst married & you have NOT?

[Zacs-Master]

Ask for proof.

[Mamyalynne]

Just calmly tell the person doing the accusing that they are wrong.

[Old_Geezer]

Annoyed.

[ummmm]

Who said it?

I'm free to see all my males friends as and when I please.

[Mamyalynne]

Maybe I've misunderstood - I took 'seeing' to imply impropriety.

[mastercraft]

I'd react calmly, but feel somewhat untrusted.

[-SharonA-]

It is not a crime surely!??

[stuey]

As Mamy suggested, it depends upon what is meant by "seeing". "Seeing" can range from merely looking at to sleeping with, which of course is another euphemism.

[ummmm]

I read it as 'seeing' as in meeting for a coffee or drink.

[Psybbo]

Calmly but with a certain amount of suspicion

[TWR]

Texting, & also asking about her OH, her son & a brother whom has mental problems.

[ummmm]

TWR - I might remember this incorrectly but wasn't you unfaithful in the past?

[TWR]

It was a mistake caused by my OH's daughter which I truly regret & alway's will, the person in this case was a true friend that stood by me & knew the sort of person I am, I will never ever forget that.

[TWR]

I should have added, it caused me to leave home.

[ummmm]

Are you OK?

[TWR]

I've had kicks all my life Ummmm, another just's adds to my list.

[Mamyalynne]

This sounds like a heap of misunderstandings - if the accusation is from within your marriage, sit down and calmly discuss it.

If it comes from an outside busybody, ignore it.

Whatever you do don't let it spoil what you have.

[ummmm]

Is this coming from your wife?

[TWR]

The last person that came out with unfounded allegations cost me a job I loved Mam, she stole from the person she cared for & got away with it, though out this person I refer to stood by me, knows me & is a Friend & a true Friend only.

[TWR]

Yes Ummmm