When A Crush You Had Has Died

[Bobbisox1]

I was around 19, he was a drummer in a band at the pub we went to , a WM Club, he took me home afterwards a few times, he was good looking with the long hair of the time, always immaculately dressed, something caught my eye on FB, his name , I asked it was the one who played in the band, yes it was , he’d died 1999, I know it was forever ago but I still got that sense of loss remembering him

[SparklyKid]

No idea where my early crushes went. Probably in an old folks home.

My favourite was Dorothy Schofield, her dad owned a fish and chip shop.

[Bobbisox1]

Haha, I’m not saying what they called him but he obviously died in his 40s early 50s by my reckoning

[gulliver1]

Never mind Bobbi ...Sparkly kid still loves you.

[Barmaid]

//something caught my eye on FB, his name//

exactly the same happened to me with a former boyfriend from 30 years previously. He hadn't died and I'm married to him now.

But I get what you mean. The pang I had when I saw his name was very strong. I am glad I plucked up the courage to message him.

[SparklyKid]

Glad a mod is on the case regarding gully's stupid posts in news.

[Canary42]

Yes, I have experienced that. A few years after my Ex dumped me, she died, and I was devastated. The sense of loss remains too.

[MargoTester]

Nothing stops his trolling though Sparky

[Bobbisox1]

It did give me a jolt BM, this group was reminiscing about North East bands and that’s where I saw his name mentioned

[Bobbisox1]

Sparkly , Gully is a pathetic figure that’s spoils AB

[Canary42]

Barmaid, what a lovely tale.

[Bobbisox1]

Yes BA for BM

[MargoTester]

I was devasted when an old acquaintance stopped me and said ' terrible news about R????? wasn't it' turned out my ex-husband had been killed in a cycling accident. So very sad, still a relatively young man.

[gness]

After we'd broken up my first and second teenage boyfriends died after falling down some stairs....separately I hasten to add.

It was a while before I could date a boy who didn't live in a bungalow..... :-(

[Bobbisox1]

It’s a weird feeling of remembering the heady days of thinking I was in love , in my mind we’re both still young and carefree

[Bobbisox1]

Gness I’ve just spat my coffee all over my iPad :0)))

[gness]

Sorry, Bobbi.... :-)

Must admit I was shocked when I was told about the first one...then when the second happened doubly shocked.....and a bit worried.
I'm surprised any boy asked me out after that.

[sunny-dave]

I am still very careful about which fondant fancy I take from the plate ...

[Bobbisox1]

I’ve been thinking of him since seeing it.Margot awful way to go , and Canary, means there’s a bit of you still loved her?

[Barmaid]

Awww, thank you.

He is fond of telling people that it only took me 5 days to nearly kill him. (He had a stroke on our honeymoon). And as to that latter comment. Shut it. You know who you are ;)

[Arksided]

Keep an eye out on that one Dave :-/