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It's totally his!!
I am 13 weeks pregnant and worried about everything. The thing is, my boyfriend asked me for a DNA test about a month ago. I was really, really offended. I know that I have not been with anyone else, but because he is doubting me I'm now doubting myself. I am driving myself crazy, how do I handle this????
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Firstly, a DNA test cannot be done until the baby is born, so that is not the pressing matter at the moment.
Sounds to me like your boyfriend is very young (or immature) and frightened. This is no excuse, however, for his lack of respect for your condition.
Have you decided what you are going to do about the pregnancy? It does not sound like he will be supportive towards you, so you need to ensure you have a strong support system around you if you plan to have the baby. You need to also decide what to do about the boyfriend. This is your decision alone.
What concerns me the most is your own doubt about the paternity of the child... Why are you doubting yourself? Surely you know if you have or have not had sex with anyone else?
Sounds to me like your boyfriend is very young (or immature) and frightened. This is no excuse, however, for his lack of respect for your condition.
Have you decided what you are going to do about the pregnancy? It does not sound like he will be supportive towards you, so you need to ensure you have a strong support system around you if you plan to have the baby. You need to also decide what to do about the boyfriend. This is your decision alone.
What concerns me the most is your own doubt about the paternity of the child... Why are you doubting yourself? Surely you know if you have or have not had sex with anyone else?
"A thing they all say?"!!!!!!
You must be joking. If my partner had said that I'd be out that door!
Just because it wasn't a planned pregnancy doesn't mean he should immediately think you might have slept with someone else.I don't know how you can bring up a kid within that kind of relationship.
And I agree with DivaDebbs,how are you doubting yourself kTbug?
You must be joking. If my partner had said that I'd be out that door!
Just because it wasn't a planned pregnancy doesn't mean he should immediately think you might have slept with someone else.I don't know how you can bring up a kid within that kind of relationship.
And I agree with DivaDebbs,how are you doubting yourself kTbug?
You know, I have no idea why I started doubting myself. Like I said, I have not been with anyone else, but I think if someone doubts you, it intern makes you doubt the fact too. At least it does me. I don't know, I am just worryng about whatever I allow my mind to make up. I seriously need to chill out with the worrying.
However, I did go to the doctor this morning and it made me feel a lot better....It's a BOY, I think I can finally take a deep breath and relax. Thanks gusy!!!!!
However, I did go to the doctor this morning and it made me feel a lot better....It's a BOY, I think I can finally take a deep breath and relax. Thanks gusy!!!!!
the shock of news of a pregnancy can cause some many (not many) to question a lot of things and they can become very insecure. If he really is wanting proof that the baby is his then is he really worth having around?
congrats by the way, youve a journey ahead of you. Im amazed that you know the sex of baby already, i didnt think it was possible to tell at 13 weeks.
congrats by the way, youve a journey ahead of you. Im amazed that you know the sex of baby already, i didnt think it was possible to tell at 13 weeks.
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