How do I . . . . .

[angel-cake]

end it with a guy i've been on a few dates with when we work together??!!!

[randyraven]

Maybe mamjet can help ?

[randyraven]

Be brave and tell him why.
Ask if you can still be mates.

[China Doll]

Just tell him the truth... you don't see it going anywhere, you don't have any romantic feelings and you hope it doesn't make it awkward working together.

[angel-cake]

It's his fault for not behaving like a proper bloke! How many other men want commitment this early!!

[AutomaticGal]

sledgehammer?

[funnygirl]

This is a toughie!

I suppose, just tell him straight and avoid him like the plague!

Put in for a transfer to another office/floor!!

[randyraven]

angel-cake
learn the lesson after this ...
Dont date too near home or near/at work.

I used to work at a company where married people worked in the same department and in one case ...
The wife was his direct manager ...How that was allowed I dont know ...but then the split happened ...he had an affair with a girl he sat next to and also reported into his wife ...
It was fun watching HR and the management sort that mess out

[randyraven]

angel-cake
Wed 23/04/08
19:36 Question Author

It's his fault for not behaving like a proper bloke! How many other men want commitment this early!!


I'm good at shallow relationships ...I'll send my card

[AutomaticGal]

put laxatives into everything he eats and drinks for a couple of days, that way HE wont want to be near anyone for a week and then blame him for not giving you attention and storm off :D:D:D:D

[logic]

Very tricky this,
He, Obviously male, so far superior by your standards as you are female, and cannot therefore compete on a mental level.
so I would advise that you get a job elsewhere,

Or you could just tell him to sod off,

[AutomaticGal]

lol im sorry i should be serious, but the ideas just come to me i dont think about them! give it a go tho it will be funny for a while and if he still insists on being with you then just do what randy said. tell the truth that ur not comfortable and learn from mistakes. were all humans we all make mistakes. its ok

[randyraven]

AutomaticGal ...wont let you fetch the coffee ...ha ha

Women are the more dangerous of the species

[AutomaticGal]

roflmao!

[randyraven]

Many moons ago ...when e-mail was new ...prior to PC's on desks this was !

Anyway I had to trace an e-mail and id who had sent it and when ...not too hard ...

The story was that he had split up with his girlfriend of many years and moved in with a new women.
The old girlfiend gave him some hassle over the split.
He then split with the new girlfriend.
She then got revenge by hacking his e-mail password and sending a threatening e-mail to his old girlfriend.
So she then reported him to the police ...

[randyraven]

The mail was like ...
It was you that caused the split with my new girlfriend ...I will follow you and on a dark n ight I will hurt you like you have me ...blah blah ...

All this was traced to the new girlfriend getting her own back on him for the split !

[AutomaticGal]

hacking is effort..trust me i do computer science. I'd still go with the laxatives or the sledgehammer...

[AutomaticGal]

btw... whats a mamjet?

[randyraven]

AutomaticGal ...we need more girls in IT ...
Its all old boys where I work

[angel-cake]

I really dont think he is going to make problems or anything, im just a wimp and usually wait for someone to dump me!! I think im just going to go completely cool with him and then say im not ready to settle down - just like a bloke!