Should She Stay Or Go

[Anonymususer123]

My girlfriend was invited to a dinner with her boss and coworkers...i asked her and told her I didn't want her to go...but she didn't listen and went anyways while i was very unhappy an she knew i was unhappy...i dont want her to go because her co corkers are 90% guys the same age and I know how they are...i asked her to not go multiple times but she just ignored me asking and i dont know if she even cares what i feel...please dont be rude in the comments im just looking on an answer...am I wrong fir not wanting her to go?what do i do

[ummmm]

You have issues. My partner would never tell me not to do something....because he trusts me!!!

[tinkerbell23]

If Mr Tinks tried to make me stay in I wouldnt?

Its just a dinner? Regardless of whos going or what age, dont you trust her? Xx

[bluemoon1]

From a male point of view
Why did you not want her to go, did you not trust her? If not then you're not right for each other.

[waterboatman]

All in all, it's her decision, not yours. She has decided to go. live with it. If you keep trying to control her you will lose her.

[woofgang]

Yes you were wrong. apologise for being an idiot and don't do it again.

[johnny.5]

Yes !

[Rockrose]

You don’t have an issue with her working with all these men just dining with them?
Tell me just what do you think is going to happen?

[murraymints]

Don't be a plonker or she'll go...for good !

[Tilly2]

Good for her for standing up to you and going anyway.

[Cloverjo]

You were wrong. It makes you look clingy, possessive and controlling. Really not good. As others have said you need to back off and trust her.

[Sqad]

"Wherever man and shark, share the same territory, then there is a chance of shark attack"

Can you see the simile?

You know your girlfriend, you know your situation, then it would be your call. Nobody else's business really.

[Cloverjo]

So she should never be in a room with men without her boyfriend, sqad?

[Sqad]

Cloverjo.......that is irrelevant to the question which highlights a specific occasion and that it not what I said, although one could interpret it as so.
Type of man, type of girlfriend, past history, flirtatious character or not , attractive to other men.........so many imponderables to take into consideration.

[Rockrose]

Because of course a woman can be in the same room as a group of men without cheating!

[spathiphyllum]

You're not wrong for not wanting her to go but you're wrong for making her feel bad for going.. At the end of the day, it is just a 'work do' ?

Maybe you need more trust in the relationship.. Why not offer to take her and pick her up? Be supportive else you'll push her away to them.

[Sqad]

Rockrose...read my post of 0854.

[naomi24]

If she’s going to cheat she’ll cheat. Keeping tabs on her every move won’t stop her. You’re wrong.

[kvalidir]

You know a terrible thing happened to me recently anonymous. My partner went to two REALLY really posh do's with a lot of exceptionally beautiful women, and in fact he took someone else rather than me on his arm because of work reasons again. Did I ask him not to go (even though I'd have liked to spend the time with him)? No I didn't, because I'm not a controlling weirdo nightmare. He can do whatever he likes and so can your girlfriend and they both will, so reign your jealousy in, and deal with it or she'll dump your sorry behind (I'd have already dumped you if after the first ask you kept nagging me about it). It's not healthy to want to control what your partner does.

[ummmm]

You tell him Kval :-)

[spathiphyllum]

Kval is it not disheartening your partner feels you're an unsuitable date for these events?

Will he not take you to one to see how it goes?