Evening, Sweetie.....like Elina I would have developed the confidence I have now much earlier....though I'm making the most of it now....☺
There is only really one big thing in my life that I would change...not something I have done but something my mother did to me that I didn't find out until a couple of years ago.....
Had I know what she'd said and done before she developed Alzheimer's I would have confronted her and had nothing more to do with her.....and probably throttled her so it's maybe as well I didn't.....but the harm done is irreversible and unforgivable....x
Hi Gness, there's a few on here like that!! I've had throughout my life in one way or another, the world is full of nasty people, the trouble is they can not see that I found that out first hand, It's very hard to do Gness but as you say, try & put it behind you.xx
I'd change many things.
I would have sought a better education for a start, I'd have travelled instead of insisting, I am a home bird.
I'd like to say I'd not have a child but that would mean I wouldn't have my Grandson..
I wouldn't have the over weight body I have carried around..thats just for starters.
But, I have a good long marriage that I wouldn't change.
There was a time towards the end of High School where I effectively spent a year or so learning nothing. That had unfortunate knock-on effects. Would have been better spent still pushing myself. Oh, well. Got there in the end, just about!
Find a way that our family could have stayed living by the sea instead of having to move inland when the company my father worked for moved to Bedfordshire. This was in my teens and I had to
change from a school doing O levels to a school doing CSEs mid sylabbus. Dis-ars-ster
P.P. Been there xxxx my answer to some F.U. If you do not like what you see, & the person you see tells the truth, if you can not take it, that's your problem.xx
A few regrets, but lucky to be where I am now. Like Gness, I would have liked to have been valued and encouraged at a young age, but heyho, it means we are more caring of our children.
Nothing, what iffing is a pointless exercise. I might have done some things differently, but what I did etc put me where I am today, and that's a good place.