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[Sqad]

You have asked me in a thread on Anorexia to stop using the term "No big deal" I feel that is insulting on a forum that deals in opinions. To be fair you are not the only one to object to my terminology, but on the other hand many people find it helpful. I can only reply with my medical cap on and will continue to do so, accepting of course that it is a "big deal" to those who have posted. For clarification: Big Deal= life threatening No Big deal= not life threatening. I have taken your comment on board, but can see no valid reason to change my methodology. Sqad 01/09/2009

[tamborine]

that's only ONE objection out of hundreds of Abers - ignore it. The Ed has the final say on cybers here.

[logic]

Mr SQAD,
you are getting yourself in a lot of hot water lately,
Is that really a medical term then,?(big deal,) cos if i had gone to the dentist for a tooth extraction, and he'd said no big deal, I would have kicked him in the nuts,
But having said that, I have heard worse,
ie, i have actually been called a cabbage in one hospital.

rock on.

[sara3]

my dentist once said he was going to get the Black and Decker out.

now that's a big deal.

[Sqad]

logic...read my definition of "big deal" and "no big deal"....simples.

[Sqad]

sara....I could think of something more exciting that he could have "got out".......LOL.....that might have been a big deal.;-)

[ummmm]

It's no big deal :-)

[logic]

I read it sqad, life threatening and non life threatening,
All i am trying to say is that, although tooth extaction is not life threatening, it's a bl00dy big deal to me,( well it was once)
Seempler, (cluck )

[logic]

Sqad, If you continue with that^^^ smut, I'm afraid I must discontinue our correspondence,.

[Sqad]

logic.....I quite understand, but it is not youthat is answering the question.

[cazzz1975]

people should not take opinions from answerbank too seriously, a bunch of usernames with a few bits of knowledge here and there should never replace a proper consultation with a qualified medical doctor

[Sqad]

cazz...absolutely.

[logic]

Sqad, this is an overt topic, so surely i am allowed to make comment,
















loggy must try harder if he wants to start an argument,But how,

[logic]

duff him up cazzz

[Sqad]

logic.......LOL stick to your Fishermen........LOL

[logic]

OK,




i'll get me coat. ..............,,:-)

[Rosetta]

I understand where you are coming from Sqad with your definition. However not every poster will know this definition and may take the phrase at face value and see it as dismissive.

In the specific example you mention i would also suggest caution in use of the term as anorexia can be life threatening.

Many people value your advice on here and take it in the spirit it is intended

[Sqad]

logic....don't you mean"Sou'wester?"

[cazzz1975]

I would not ask medical advice on here, google does an adequete job, failing that I would make an appointment with a doctor

[cazzz1975]

I should , shouldnt I logic :)

[Sqad]

cazz....absolutely.