If it's "entertaining posts" night, I might stick around.
Leggy ... of course you can be "a bit gay".
In fact, in my experience, it's the guys who are most confident about their own sexuality who enjoy a bit of teasing.
I think it's more common for women, because you lot are generally insecure, and you think that if you show any sign whatsoever of being a bit pink, everybody will think you are a raving homo. Consequently, you do this tough, macho thing. And the result ... half the time you come across like a member of Village People.