I'm Abit Worried About This Trial Next Week

[abbeylee90]

As it involves bed making which I've never made anyone else bed so different cleaning to what I do now 

[abbeylee90]

Of course I don't feel respected in the care home

[newmodarmy]

Are you just thinking out loud here Abbey. There seems no structure to your questions or points.

[abbeylee90]

Yeah I live close to the care home now feeling forced to get another job as not enough hours 

[newmodarmy]

Do you have anyone at home or friends to discuss these things with?

[newmodarmy]

We seem to go round in circles. 

[scorpiojo]

Have you left HB?

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, someone has to say this - the only reason you have been 'forced' to look elsewhere is because the care home felt you couldn't cope with full-time hours and cut yours way, way down.   

[abbeylee90]

I do full days when they're short

[newmodarmy]

And? Would it help if we were to lie and say you've been treated badly or unfairly by this employer ( and the other one who failed your probation)?

Instead of trying to get the sympathy of strangers you need to sort out what's important and what you can do.

 

  

[scorpiojo]

You do full days when the care home is short?

[Floko]

You say you are 'forced' to look for another job, but you already have a second job at HB and you are asking them for days off (which was declined) and now asked for a whole week off(unpaid).

HB will soon get tired of your requests......

I can only repeat what I and others have said, time after time : Tell your Mum and discuss your problem with her. There may be frustration or tears but it is the best way forward. 

[abbeylee90]

No I know I get you I've got 2 weeks to look for another job before going back. What important is settling and getting a job that's treating me fairly 

[Redhelen72]

As far as I can see not one of your jobs has treated you unfairly- quite the opposite in fact.

[abbeylee90]

Mcdonalds did, warehouse replaced me beforw failing my probation and manager was horrible to me my current colleuges are nice I'm going off my supervisor slightly 

[Hazlinny]

Abbey/ do you have any hobbies as you seem to spend a lot of time talking on AB about your work worries?  What else do you do in your spare time?

[douglas9401]

I'm sure you'll make your bed and lie in it.

[Redhelen72]

You pick jobs that require a high level of enthusiasm and oomph something you seem to lack giving the feedback you have received.

as for the comment about letting you go before failing your probation- that's the point of probation so they can get rid of you as soon as it's clear you are not performing.

[newmodarmy]

So you're taking 2 weeks unpaid leave from HB? Even though you have only been there a few weeks? It seems they have been very fair to you. But I think they realise you probably won't come back and they are planning accordingly.

[Floko]

Were you working at HB today(Saturday) before your two weeks off ?

[abbeylee90]

Yes dog walking but i dont get paid for it. 

Yes they are I mean the card home I'm not I'm getting treated fairly and gone off supervisor.

I mean they replaced me before failing my probation with an ex employee.