Difficult post for me to make

[B00]

As quite a few of you know, my daughter was expecting twins, however we were recently advised that she was having what is termed a Mono-amniotic pregnancy, and that the outcome wasn't great. During her fortnightly scan yesterday we were told that both babies had died.

She has now got to wait until Saturday to be admitted to the delivery suite at the hospital where she will be given a pessary (sp) every 3 hours to bring on labour.

She has- to all our horror, got to delivery these babies as normal.

I've pondered since yesterday whether to make this post, however as a few of of you knew about her pregnancy and the difficulties involved I thought it right to let you know.

I'm not really a praying person, but since yesterday I have been doing- I honestly don't know how we're going to get through Saturday and the weeks/months to follow.

If anyone feels this post is a bit too depressing, feel free to report it, it has however helped slightly to write it down.

Thanks for listening.
Boo

[cazzz1975]

good grief boo, that is really sad news, my heart goes out for you and your daughter, take one day at a time, Im glad you posted especially if it helped you.

[Robinia]

Oh B00, I'm so very sorry. Nothing I can say will make you & your daughter feel better but I'll be thinking of you.
One day at a time. Take good care of each other...I know you will get through even though it doesn't feel like you will today.
Don't forget you have our addresses.
Love Robi.
xx.

[LoftyLottie]

Oh Boo, I am so very, very sorry to hear your sad news. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Take care and take strength from each other.

xxxxxx

[legend758duo]

sad news.

ive suffered loss of pregnancy and its a terrible thing..

my thoughts are with your daughter and you x

[netibiza]

Dear BOO - what can I say. I'm so so sorry for this to have happened, I feel so sorry for your poor daughter and then to have to go through the birth, but I could have told you this is the safest and normal way of things. What caused it? does anyone know? Chin up, she'll be alright with you as her mum, take care x

[PatriciaH]

Aww boo i send my love to you and your family at such a sad time... talking does help, feel free to msn me ( dots got my msn if you need it ) i know someone this happened to about 10 years ago also with twins , she went through hell but now its easier for her to talk about the babes now -she had a full burial for them.sending all my love ... trish xxx

[moonshadow]

Boo I am so very sorry to hear your sad news, please read Puss' advice again. No one knows better than one who has gone through the same experience.Perhaps Father Bill will be able to advise you as well.Take care of your precious girl. God Bless XX

[weeal]

Oh BOO I am so sorry to hear this terrible news.
Thinking about you and your daughter.
Hugs

Al xx

[smudge]

Ah, bless you BOO - I am so, so, sorry that you've had to type those words. It was quite an unexpected shock to read them, so God knows how you & your daughter must be feeling right now.

Nothing anyone can say will make you, or your daughter feel better at this very sad time, but rest assured, we're all thinking of you both & the rest of your family.

You are a brilliant Mum BOO & although it will take some time for you to get over this, you have each other & that's the main thing.

Take everything in bite size pieces, it'll make them easier to deal with.

Love Smudge. -xxxx-

[angel75]

hi boo,my thoughts are with u and your daughter.i was crying while reading your post.i have been following your post from when you found out she was pregnant to when she found out about the twins.please look after yourselfs.will be thinking about you all.

[smudge]

Back again BOO - just had time to read back & realised you'd posted earlier.

I'm so sorry your daughter has to decide what to do with her little ones - it just doesn't bear thinking about....

Thinking of you both & hope you can get some sleep.

Love Smudge. -xx-

[hau kola]

Thinking of you both.XOXOXO

[megan07]

Boo, i am so sorry, you know we will all be thinking of your daughter, and you, my thoughts are with you and your family, take good care and i send all my love to your precious daughter. love always, megan. xx

[B00]

Thank you everyone, really means alot to hear nice things at the moment, you're all lovely.

Thanks
xxxxxxx

[bigmamma]

Been thinking of you sweetheart and you remain in my thoughts , take care . xx

[Kleiber]

Oh, BOO, I'm so sorry to read your sad news. Big hugs & love to your dear daughter and you. K xxx

[smudge742]

what sad news you have had, I know nothing I say can make the situation any easier on any of you. I just want you to know you are all in my thoughts, I am so sorry things are so difficult.
Love and hugs to you all. xx

[geraint]

BOO, I know we've had our ups and downs but I would'nt wish anything like this on your daughter,yourself and the rest of the family. I miscarried back in the 80's and that was terrible but to lose 2 baby's is heart breaking. I can only repeat the words of the others here and hope with all my heart that your daughter finds strength from you her mum. You're all in my thoughts BOO.

[fagidill]

Thinking About You, What A Sad Time For You All.

[Pippa68]

Oh BOO..thinking of you and your family at this horrendous time.

I know you are there for each other, and how difficult it is to try and be strong for your daughter.

My heart goes out to you all, lovey :o(

xxx