Suspected cheating

[efences]

Hi Guys,

I have a feeling my wife may be having an affair. Shes secretive with Facebook and her phone. I found a mobile phone number written down which I know i wasnt meant to see.

Is there anyway of checking if that number has been used? Either as a call or text?

Im so gutted but dont want to confront her til i have solid evidence.

I dont know her online account password or username for her phone bill. And i doubt T Mobile will disclose that info

Please help.

Thank you in advance.

Desperate times call for desperate measures.

[ummmm]

Only one person has said that efences...

[redcrx]

could it just be that her mobile is linked to her facebook account or something? she may be getting lots of text reports that way so doesnt need to bother opeing them the second they come in

[efences]

Ummmmm - No real change. Although she's used words i've never heard her use in our 9 years together. Rude words.

[Bbbananas]

Is this desire for secrecy and privacy a new thing efences?

Some people (I'm one of them) just like to keep some things personal - I hate my BF always asking "who's that, who's that....?" when someone texts - I have nothing to hide, I just think "mind your own business" !!

By the sounds of things though, something (or someone) is on her mind though....

[Ankou]

true red. i know a (married) couple who seem to do most of their communicating via iphone for fb,despite living together and working from home 3 days a week. its quite sad, and very tedious for onlookeers.

[Booldawg]

any other changes in behaviour? taking more care in appearance such as new clothes or a bit more makeup when she goes out/goes to work?

[Sqad]

ummmm...yes and that person was ME.

A newby arrives on the scene and the first 2 questions

a) Blood spots on my scrotum.
b)Suspected cheating.

Backward little chap isnt he?

[efences]

Shes not been out more than usual.

[Bbbananas]

It's amazing what personal things we come out with if we are confident of our anonymity sqad....

[MarkRae]

> She's not been out more than usual.

So when do you suppose she's finding the time to have an affair...?

[efences]

Sqad,

Seriously, if you have nothing constructive to say then don't read.

That simple. You know nothing about me so you can't really judge can you.

[Sqad]

salla...isnt it!

[ummmm]

Sqad....I found this site to ask a personal question. I have since changed my name...

[milly143]

I often pray that nobody I know stumbles accross this site.

[efences]

Markrae,

It's just a suspicion. Im not saying she DEFINITELY is. Hence why my original post was to ask if there was any way of finding if a number has been used.

[DTCwordfan]

me too.

[Ankou]

when i asked a similar question i felt it necessary to use a different name. it back fired of course, but take it as it comes. time will tell.

[MarkRae]

As I said, have you tried Googling the number...?