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haycal2008 | 01:35 Sat 21st Jun 2008 | Relationships & Dating
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We have just discovered our dad is seeying a woman half his age (he is 62 she is 31) from Kenya!

He has been there a few times alone over the last few months and has returned today for 5 weeks to spend wiv this woman. He had a gf of 16 yrs who he has told he is in love with this african beauty! She is heartbroken and cant belive whats happening, neither can we!!

Could she actually be with my dad cuz she loves him or is she just after his cash?! I mean why would she be interested in him, dads eldest daughter is older than she is! We are all just concerned about this woman who may be trying to fleece our dad, any help wouldbe appriciated x

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haycal2008 from what she wrote, does not seem concerned about herself being out of pocket if her dad is being fleeced by this woman, I think she is concerned about him....

I still feel sorry for his ex partner of 16 years
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My dads ex petal is gutted she loves my dad dearly, there were no signs that it had broken down but he has become smitten over this woman and seams to disregard her feelings, perhaps its a mid-life crisis?
Your rudeness, presumptions and insensitivity never fails to surprise me.

Maybe he didn't bring them up. Maybe they have an unconditional love for him because he is their father. Do you know nothing of the sanctity of loving and caring for your family?

Should my kids have to look after their dad in years to come after he fooked off to a foreign country and didnt bring them up. I think not!
Quite possibly Hays but you must be prepared for him to not see it that way. I do feel very sorry for his partner though. Perhaps wait and see what happens when the dust settles.
seems a bit old for a midlife crisis haycal2008... .. but to be with someone for that length of time, and then, him meeting someone else, poor love, no wonder she is heartbroken
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haha theland, sorry did reliseas soonas i posted the thead it wasnt you ;)
Leylenda....do u mind......I'm over 60! Less of the shooting!
Yeah, no shooting!
Death by Bongo is much better. (I'm 57)
Sorry but the hypocrisy is suffocating here.How many folk in their 30s or 40s would pick a partner of their 60 year old parents choice?

But turn it round to a daft old guy in his 60s and its ok.Hey if you wont let folk choose for you dont expect the choice for others.

Its just money ive seen it and raed about it so many times.Shes after his money they say.You meanj the money you expect?

well?

sorry i think its noones business but his own.

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Well i have managed to start a debate! im 27 and dont live with my dad, and nomy dad was not around when iwas younger he left my momwhen i was 3 months oldandi had nocontact with himuntil i was 11!

I am seriously concerned for him and not at all for myself, i will be there for him when he needs me. Just wondered if it was a midlife crisis as he was on about a new car or bike before all this just seams strange!! he knows the risks and does seam suspicious of her love for him,soi guess we will just have to w8 and see what happens.
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please excuse my lack of spaces i got a sticky space bar!!! arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!
in haycal situation, I dont think it is, the money she was expecting when her dad dies, if thats what you are implying?

but what if she is? does that make her a bad person?
Ask your dad where he went to find this lovely beauty......I'll be off to try my luck!!!

I got loads-o-money...........he he
just out of interest haycal, how old was your dads ex partner?
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leyenda end of? does that mean yourgona shut up and stop sayin im after his money? I DONT CARE ABOUT HIS MONEY! I CARE ABOUT HIM! is that so hard for you to belive? between you and my sticky space bar im gettin mad!
In my opinion, being a parent doesn't stop when the children fly the nest. I am still there for the two who have left as well as the four that remain. As long as I have the strength, I will always be there for them, and I worry now about how to divide up the house or keep it as a base for them, forever.
Yes, I do believe parents still have some duty to pass on to their kids what is left materially, not to let it slip into the hands of an opportunist, IF that is the case.
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she is 57,my dads always praised her forbeing a "no headaches" woman lol.

terambulan - kenya go on afrodating.com there are 1000's ov them looking for men 17-90 for marriage!!!
Hay, there is no need for you to justify the concern you feel for your father to anyone on this thread. You have asked a question and received some good advice and you seem balanced enough to take it on board. Most of us can see quite clearly that you are concerned about your father and this is perfectly natural.

Remember what i said about opening your mouth and confirming to the world you're a fool... Well I think you can see a willing example on this thread how that saying came about. And you know there's no debating with a fool so I wouldn't bother, let alone justifying yourself.
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terambulan
how old are you my moms single and looking - lol
I really feel for you haycal, its a very difficult situation to be in. If it was my dad, then I would have exactly the same concerns as you.

btw, did he meet her from the site you mentioned?

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