Private lapdance

[tinkerbell23]

A mate of mine found receipts in her boyfriends pocket for two "private" one on one sessions in a lapdancing club...

Grand sum of £120 a go!!!

What happens in these one-to-ones then?

Im pretty sure that theres a "no touch" policy...but really...how do they know??

I dont mind lapdancing as such but any touching involved i think thats the end of the road for her & him!!!

Thanks xxx

[cathfromsaron]

it's all ogling and cheap titilation BUT still a waste of money IMHO

[cazzz1975]

what a waste of money

[MarkRae]

A psychologist might tell you that he left the incriminating evidence for his partner to find because, subconsciously, he wants to get caught and is secretly looking for a way out...

[Booldawg]

120! I think 'she saw him coming' would be an unfortunate turn of phrase!

[DTCwordfan]

Or for her to take more attention of him........

[TOWIE]

Wheres Mr. Lapdance when you need him - <<<shouts for Sqad>>>

[EvianBaby]

From what I hear as a lone female in a company full of 20-30 something year old men, you're better off not knowing some things about what your bloke does.

They will sometimes regale stories about experiences with lapdancers and the private dances they fork out for but it's never more than a little bit of touching and knowing all these guys well enough to know they'd never (probably) have an affair I wouldn't think it's anything to worry about.

My ex used to go to lap dancing clubs on stag do's, etc but I didn't care really. I knew he was going to go but I didn't want to know the details and that suited us both.

[vodkancoke]

I'd be more than upset too. Has he told her his version?

[friedgreentomato]

Do they live together?
How long have they been dating?
What was she doing going through his pockets?
What is their sex life like (is it active)

Really don't see it as an issue myself!!

[ummmm]

Even if there's touching involved, Red?

[DTCwordfan]

Was her name ZdzisisŁawa all the way from Warsaw, as that's quite a mouthful.

Define touching being the point.

[friedgreentomato]

Depends on what you mean by touching if it is her rubbing her tits on his chest and he is clothed - no problem if its her ar se or other bits and agiain she is clothed don't see the issue.

I would be more concerned over why she was searching through his pockets!

[friedgreentomato]

I can trust my hubbie not to cheat so a little cheap titalation is like watching live p orn - nothing to fuss over!

[EvianBaby]

Agree FGT, it's all just a bit of fantasy and bravado. Fill ya boots.

[joggerjayne]

Yeah, £120 ??

Wow !

I love the idea of getting a receipt, LOL.

"I'd like a private dance please. Oh, and I need a VAT receipt."

[DTCwordfan]

sex a la Monica Lewisky then? £120 involved - a fair amount if outside London, the association being that its likely to be Glasgow or Edinburgh......

[DTCwordfan]

In Brighton, you might just find a female to female lapdancing bar, Jane....

[tinkerbell23]

Been together for 7yrs.

I guess by touching i mean if anything has went on??

Id be pretty mad i think.

[DTCwordfan]

Jayne, not Jane, apologies..........

[2sp_]

A (female) friend of mine had a private lap dance, and the dancer only touched herself (quite vigorously by all accounts...). At no point did the dancer touch her.

But I suppose every lap dancer and establishment has different guidelines.

She really needs to talk to her boyfriend and find out what happened, and decided for herself where her boundaries are.