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[4getmenot]

years ago i used to hang out with a bloke everynight who was a close mate and i was seeing his best mate. Over the years and with various things happened my ex got with a girl he'd been seeing behind my back. My mate and his girlfriend always hang about with my ex and his girlfriend. Anyway havnt hung out for over four years and today get an invite through door to mates 30th party. Would you A. Not go B. Make up an excuse so they dont think you're just not going because of ex or C. Party the night away.

[sara3]

C, go and have fun.. unless you still have issues with the ex?

[B00]

A- not go, and wouldn't give a stuff what they thought the reasoning behind it was.

[starone]

Go and make sure you look devastating so they know what they are missing. Also make sure they can see you are having a good time. Don't drink too much or you might fall over and spoil the illusion.

[stokemaveric]

theres more xs here than a cross the ball coupon 4get.........

[starone]

The real question is what do YOU want to do? Really?

[anneasquith]

dont waste your time going......its in the past and you are happy now.

[arwyn]

P1$$ in his beer.

[mazie]

I wouldn't bother 4get but as stoke say, do what you want but dont make excuses

[jackthehat]

I would go *only* if I felt and looked 'fabulous'............and then I'd only stay long enough for him to start getting all misty-eyed over losing me... :o)

[DTCwordfan]

seriously your choice - if you value their friendship for what ever reason go and have a blast and "shine like a crazy diamond"

If not, A, but be civil in your refusal.

[looobylooo]

A or B.
i think sometimes when we 'try' to look our extra bestest, or 'try' to be seen as having an exceptionally good time etc for whatever reason ^^, it often doesnt quite go to plan, and even has a tendancy to back fire on us ......
sooo, if my heart wasnt fully into going to the party, i think id not go ...

[4getmenot]

i had already made up my mind just wondered what kind of answers you'd give. I am of course going, i wouldnt want to let my fans down. It happened 4yrs ago. All that bothers me is the girl thinks she took my mate and would think he hadnt invited me. Would shock her to see me. But i agree with last bit of your post looby, anyone trying to look good sticks out like sore thumb. Im just me and shine anyway. And smile on inside knowing im with a loving kind man and she's with someone that cheats on her. Ive never missed a party. Apart from bodyshop ones. They are boring lol

[4getmenot]

plus its fancy dress. Cant miss that

[4getmenot]

and jack when i got with my man he tried getting me back. He then started going out with that girl bout year later coz no-one else would have him lol. Then he started seeing someone behind her back and was gonna leave her and she announced she was pregnant lol

[sherrardk]

Sounds like a right catch (not)!

[4getmenot]

hey I was young and stupid lol

[DTCwordfan]

are you married or partnered now 4getmenot?

[4getmenot]

partnered, he probably wont go although he is on invite. as he used to see the girl lol

[DTCwordfan]

cor blimey - 4getmenot - it doesnt half add to the complexities of life in the Broads.