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I think my best friend likes the same person as me..

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hellymyname | 21:57 Mon 07th Dec 2009 | Relationships & Dating
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So about a week or so ago I told my best friend that I liked this guy. I like him even more now, and I am starting to get the impression she does as well.. as soon as he comes online, so does she, she keeps talking about him and she said to me that if he tried to kiss her she wouldnt say no.. I dont know what to do, I dont know if she didnt realized that when i said i liked him i actually meant it or what.. but I dont want to mention it to her because i dont want to look paranoid or obsessed. Oh dear! What should I do?
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pretend you like someone else, its a common thing that women are more attracted to men that other women like
21:59 Mon 07th Dec 2009
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Does it matter? It's up to the fella to make his own mind up whether he likes either of you surely?
22:01 Mon 07th Dec 2009
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he might be tiger woods china.. :o
22:03 Mon 07th Dec 2009
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Hmmmm.... As friends I suppose they could get used to sharing everything? (Bleugh!!)
22:21 Mon 07th Dec 2009
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Does he actually like either of you? Or does he even care? Sorry to be hard, but you are talking as if you both liking him means it is a done deal he fancies both of you, with may be a mile from the truth.
00:03 Tue 08th Dec 2009
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no, im not assuming he likes either of us, and you are probably right, its just i really really like him, and im completely incapable of getting anything right with guys!!
00:24 Tue 08th Dec 2009
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It's competition. She's your mate and she wants him to like her more than you. It'll be an ego boost for her.
00:26 Tue 08th Dec 2009
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In which case, why not ask him?
00:30 Tue 08th Dec 2009
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becuase havnt known him for that long.. and im terrified of rejection
00:32 Tue 08th Dec 2009
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Well if you do ask him, he may reject you, but if you don't, you won't have a relationship, so what is the difference - you might as well ask him!¬
00:34 Tue 08th Dec 2009
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How often do you talk to him?
00:36 Tue 08th Dec 2009
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Is he already with someone? Maybe ask how his weekend went or if coming up to one, ask what plans he has for the weekend. Maybe suggest meeting up for a daytime coffee. He (or she) who hesitates is lost!
11:51 Tue 08th Dec 2009
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you both could have him, I'm very sure he won't say no...;)
14:17 Tue 08th Dec 2009

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