ok, you have been with someone on and off for 5 years

[Petal~flower]

and they say, they cant see themselves being with you, as �30,000 a year is ok for a single man, but not enough to be with someone with a family (even though that other person is working)

So what is he trying to say?

[ELVIS68]

You`re not the one for him

[Petal~flower]

****

what a waste of my life

[mrs.chappie]

Sorry Petal lass, but I think he's just using that as an excuse because he doesn't want commitment. In my opinion, that's a heck of a good wage!

{:o(

[ELVIS68]

Seems that way...why did it take so long to realise?

[Petal~flower]

I need a ******* kick up the arse

[Ice.Maiden]

Hi Petal - save face easily. Tell him you agree, and that you're sorry to say, but you need someone who earns twice that amount at least, so........ xx

[legendis.god]

oops trying to say beat it.



and not being very subtle either

[Lore]

Personally I think that person who is complaining should get a second job to make up the missing 'required' amount if it's that much of a problem. - I know I would if that's all that was getting in the way of happiness.

Money may make the world go around ( or not, given the current state of the economy) But it's only a small part of the big picture. Tell him to do one!

[mrs.chappie]

Anyway, you deserve much better than him.

The rotten scoundrel.

[pastafreak]

tell him you need someone who will give you the things you deserve...

[Petal~flower]

Capt and Ice (hi) oh my god, If I could get money for how man times I have posted questions on here about all this, I would be RICH!

we fight,.... I always make up first but always ends up feeling I was in the wrong....

does my head in, and knocks my self esteem a few notches back

[WhiteBear]

petal hes a selfish git. who wants the money all to himself!! whitebear *pokes* him!! xx

[ELVIS68]

"Booooooot"...there`s ya kick up the arse!

Fook him and his �30k...tell him if his knob was as big as his ego you`d have got a better paid job to suit his needs

[Petal~flower]

I offered to work an extra Sunday a month to help out. (time and a half ) but he said he didnt want to be stuck in doors all day loking afte my 2 youngest and his child.


So I give up.


Am I right to just give up, and say stuff you you self ****...............cos thats what I feel like saying lol

[Petal~flower]

love you Elvis (in a funny way ok)

[Ice.Maiden]

Petal hun - when you meet a man, you come as a package - you and your children. You offered to work extra, and he couldn't even be gracious enough to look after your two young ones while you did it.
I think pasta's right - tell him you deserve someone who'll give you all the nice little treats and things ANYWAY. Sorry, but he certainly doesn't sound like someone who'd be a good bet to settle down with. x

[lindapinda]

Petal...hi...you know i'm telling it like it is. Your children should NEVER be a chore to him,if you and he are partners..