How do you...

[mcraig]

How do you cope when you have no way of seeing/speaking to someone you love for 6 weeks??

Just saw this person who I'm mad about for the last time for a good six weeks. He doesn't know I'm mad about him like, but that doesn't matter.

If it was you do you reckon you'd just stick it out and get on with it, or do you look forward to seeing them after all the time, or what is it???

What's your opinion??

[4getmenot]

In this day and age you can always contact them, phone, e-mail, letter, fax.....

[Velvetee]

Be an adult and tell him you are interested and would like to get to know him better, instead of fantasising about someone and hoping you'll see a glimpse of them. Afterall, he can only say no.

[mcraig]

Can't - not in the right position for telling him I'm interested.

And I can't phone/e-mail etc cus I don't know any of his contact details.

So it's basically just how to cope. Is it wallowing in my misery for a while or just looking forward to seeing him after the six weeks?

[mcraig]

No no. Not married. Just that the situation is wrong. Not going to go into details, because it's complicated...

[Octavius]

Well you can either wallow in your own misery for 6 weeks in the hope that you will see him afterwards and something might happen, or you can enjoy 6 weeks of your life without wasting them, and see what happens (if anything) when he gets back.

I wouldn't call it 'coping' more wasting.

[4getmenot]

he is married

[Velvetee]

If either of you are married, or he's a member of Take That or some other boy band, then you just need to get a grip, brush it to one side and get over it.

[4getmenot]

Take That?? screams and faints

[888sally888]

4get
1st December 2007
Sally kissed Gary Barlow!!

[Velvetee]

How did you come to kiss the chubby one in Take That Sally?

[mcraig]

I was just wanting to know what everyone thought was the best course of action on this subject.

[Velvetee]

It's difficult to advise, without knowing more details.

[mcraig]

Okay, I think Octavius' answer is a good one.

Thanks for that - I think you really got the right end of the stick with this question. Thank you!!

[mcraig]

And yeah, Velvetee, I know.. I just don't want to get into it ... because it would take a good while to explain. Thanks for trying to help though.,

And btw -he is DEFINITELY not a boy-band guy. I'm not like that. =]

[mcraig]

Okay, let's just -

Right. I'll give a little more details.

He's kind of in a higher position than me - sorta just my superior, so that's the reason the circumstances are such that we can't get into anything.

This probably won't help, but you know. =]

[Octavius]

Is it just a one-way crush?

[mcraig]

Not entirely sure about that to be honest.

He says some things that are REALLY flirty and gives me looks and stuff, but then the next day he'll ignore me, but then go back to flirting....

So I'm not sure if it's just a one way crush. I think it's possible that it could be more.