What men really find attractive?

[Rubyrose]

My auntie is reading a fiction book called Elegance. The book is about a woman who finds an old book, written in the 50's, in a store about how to be an elegant lady. In the book this woman is reading, there is the following:

[neo.]

been to see Oceans 13.......cleavage is the answer

[Rubyrose]

I think the bit I find most true is:

"In order to attract eachother, the sad truth is, women always employ far less discretion than men"

I think that goes back to the Ladette thing though... All elegance is lost!

[neo.]

Elen Barken must have had a boob job...they are amazing

[Skreecheeboy]

Any bird willing to loose their discretion as you say, will never have trouble pulling, so long as she doesn't loose control of her faculties through alcohol abuse as part of the process. Nobody wants to have sex with an unconcsious drunk except date rapists and fellow drunks.

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, where can i buy this book?

[Rubyrose]

Lol. I have no idea. It's a fiction book called 'Elegance'. Thats all I know. I will try and find out the author.

[bobtheturkey]

has she not read it by now

[topogigo]

What i find attractive in a women cannot be encouraged by clothes or the way they move or the way they avert their eyes so as to appear aloof, which was in the past seen as a form of elegance. Quite the opposite with me, in fact i would be attracted to a women who lay motionless on the floor with no clothes on staring into space, different strokes for different folks, as they say. I would not be so rude as to criticise anyone elses preferences.

[bobtheturkey]

is a pulse a turn off topogigo?

[dot.hawkes]

a few minutes ago there were 20 replies here, i think the idea of putting your thread at the top of the page (again) is to generate response, not get it removed, shake a leg slippers you're slacking! : ))

[sense4all]

Author is Kathleen Tessaro, Publisher is Harper Collins,
ISBN 0-00-715143-8. It was a Sunday Times Bestseller.