'Accidental' babies

[yolande]

What percentage of children do you think are 'accidentally' conceived but actually their mothers planned it secretly? I think it is higher than we might think! It's pretty naughty! Anyone here done it or thought about it? Or have their partners?

[4getmenot]

I think it is wrong to pressure a bloke into having a kid and when a woman gets pregnant on purpose if the bloke wont stand by her that is up to him, and I hate people that think he is in the wrong for leaving the mother. If he has already said he isn�t ready, getting pregnant on purpose doesn�t mean he�ll then change his mind and serves the mother right if she then gets left on her own. I know a girl at the moment who has come off the pill but not told her boyfriend because he going to go in the army and she thinks a baby will change his mind! But I also think that any bloke that isn�t ready for a child or never wants one should always use a condom as well as any pill to be extra sure.

[webwriter]

If a bloke doesn't want a kid, he's in control of making sure it doesn't happen, isn't he?

If you play with fire, expect to get burned!

[havinmysay]

i agree with 4getmenot u cant make a man stay with u 'for the kids sake'
my friend has done that she now has 4 kids to 4 different men she is only 23 and has no life

[chitchat]

I dont know about accidents - i know someone who slept with a bloke, made sure she slept with her husband after and has passed the resulting child off as her husband's ever since. I think that is really low. Poor kid - hopefully they are and never will be none the wiser - after all no one wants to know that they have a wh0re as a mother!