How to talk to a lady - GENUINE advice please

[SurreyGuy]

I'm single and a bit shy. I often see some nice looking women in the supermarket. I often smile at them and get a mixture of being ignored, looked at as if I have excrement on my face or (very seldom) a smile back. How do I actually strike up a conversation?

I also often see some nice ladies walking down the road when I'm driving. I think that if I just stopped and got out of the car, they'd feel threatened (and I can understand that), so how do say "hi" safely?

T.I.A.

[SurreyGuy]

wonderwoman is GORGEOUS! PHWOAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :o) xx

[wonderwoman1]

hahaha ok so AB is full of liars today!!! cheeky bu66ers!!!

[raysparx]

I will leave you two together (I have left and closed door,carry on now )

[~posy~]

bye spk have fun!

ray you are a charmer as always!! if only i wasn't married!! now behave before you get in trouble with mrs sparx!! (tell her i said hello) xXx

[SurreyGuy]

wonderwoman, i'm being 100% honest and 100% complimentary! xx What a shame you live so bloody far away! <cries un-controllably> xx

[~posy~]

SurreyGuy sorry for hijacking your 'fred' too!!

on a serious note you sound lovely, (any chance of a pic ;-))just relax and love might come knocking at your door! believe me - it happened to me!! xXx

[SurreyGuy]

Awwwwwwwwwwww. posy :o) I AM a lovely guy. The problem I have found is that women say that they want a guy who is honest, open and up-front (like me!), then when they find out that I am exactly like that, they change their mind!

I dunno how to post a pic on here, but if you live local we can chat on Messenger <cue, "I'm married" or "I live miles away" answer>

[wonderwoman1]

lol surreyguy...messenger isnt a problem!!!!!

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chat soon, hopefully!! ;)

[~posy~]

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yeah i am married but you can still talk to me if you like xXx

[SurreyGuy]

Thanks wonderwoman and posy - no offence but I'm not likely to meet either of you and, whilst I know you can never have enough friends, I just feel as though I'd be wasting your time and (as wonderwoman is sooooooooooo gorge!) getting my hopes up :o) xx

[liquidspace]

Ooh pick me, pick me lol
Id love to c yer pic surrey - am just wondering how to post mine on here!

[helliebobs]

HI surreyguy, I don't have much to add as everyone has already given you the best advice, although I will say you should listen to ray cos he is brilliant in every way!

I also wanted to join the wonderwoman love-in cos I was feeling left out! She is the loveliest person ever, as wonderful as her name suggests, and as you have seen for yourself, she is a total fox! x

[SurreyGuy]

Brighton is too far as well liquid xx

[~posy~]

i'm coming to reading in 3 weeks!! thats not far from you!!

[SurreyGuy]

That's true posy, but you're "taken" :o(

[wonderwoman1]

aww hells, you are a sweetie! it wont work, he says he is too far away, i'm off to cry now!!! rejection in cyberspace is painful! xxxx

[wonderwoman1]

oooo i just had a thought!! surreyguy does it help that i have family in west sussex?

i'm clutching at straws here!! xx

[guinnessman]

Not wanting to cut in or anything, but having just seen Wonderwoman1's piccie........................ Hi gorgeous ! xx

[SurreyGuy]

Oi, guninness..............join the queue! :o)

wonderwoman, west sussex is a bloody long way too, but nearer that E'burgh. Maybe if you come down I'll see if I can accomodate you in between chatting to women in Tesco and going to night school! :op

[guinnessman]

Sorry mate, but I can't help myself !
Tell you what, next time i'm down Surrey way, I'll take you out for a few beers / j2O's. Deal ?