A big chill in the air!

[bum crack]

Woah! So much hostility on this site? Why?
I have used forums and Q & A sites before but I have never come across so much childishness.
I perhaps shouldn't say this seeign as I am new, but why don't you all just grow up and use the site as it is intended. Ask question (valid questions) and receive answers?
It seems quite simple to me but it appears that there are some children on here that cannot follow the rules.

[redcrx]

which rules would they be?

[oldgrape]

arent you now asking an invalid question

[bum crack]

The Site Rules, about people being abusive to each other. Although why things like that need to be said si beyond me, common sense and courtesy would suffice.

I have never experienced anything like this before, it's all 'he said, she said' playground antics.

[Octavius]

Where is the hostility of which you speak?

[bum crack]

No I don't think it's invalid. I am asking why there is so much hostility on here.

It's a simple question that requires no smart alec answers.

[redcrx]

but you can choose to ignore such behaviour if you feel it is occuring and report it when you are able

[sleepyj]

what do you know with a cr*p name like that !!

[B00]

Awww give it up backside hole, no one's falling for this new user twaddle.

[cheries]

Top prize for username goes to ....bum crack!!!
Smashing stuff. Well, in answer to your question / comment, I think there are a lot of people on AB who are frustrated fishwives and know-it-alls who aren't brave enough to stand up to people face to face, so they come on this site and behave abhorrently to anyone who disagrees with them. I was called a nosey sl@g by someone replying to a post I once made. My husband told me that people like that are very, very insecure because they use this forum to vent some kind of anger. You'll also find that newbies get ignored totally (I did), or abused, so be warned.
Having said that, there are genuine users on here who aren't bored / have murderous tendancies and who genuinely want to get or give answers to genuine questions.

[sleepyj]

cr*p lol

[bum crack]

In a question a few down. The childishness I am speaking of is people pretending to be other people, other people accusing someone of being so and so and to be honest the whole lot confused me! I don't know anyone on here yet, but if the childishness carries on then I doubt I will stick around to find out.

[oldgrape]

there are only a few who are hostile and we all know who they are and we just ignore them
don't try and rock the boat
if your not happy try another answersite no one is forcing u to stay

[B00]

Actually..... A Big Chill.....?

Chilly? That you?

[bum crack]

What is the problem with my user name. It is a family joke which is in fact a private family joke and although not the most conventional username, I happen to like it. Short of using my real name which I didn't want to do, this was the enxt best thing.

I am sorry if you do not believe I am a new user, I could tell from the replies I had on my earlier 'Hello' post that I was doubted.

Why can you not take someone at face value?

[bum crack]

I am not trying to rock the boat, my original question was asking why there was so much bad feeling on here, and as yet no-one has answered me that.
No youa re correct, no-one is forcing me to stay but no-one has given me any incentive to want to stay either.
I am very well liked and respected on other forums and I found this site by chance and thought I would try it out, I am being sarcastic with you so I would appreciate if you could show me the same respect.

[oldgrape]

wow don't take things to heart arent people aloud an opinion bum crack is a silly name and so is my user name get a grip
there just playing

[Octavius]

It�s a Q&A site, anyone who provides a factual answer can be a know-it-all? And frustrated fishwives make a valuable contribution to the lads and lasses who flock here to seek old fashioned wisdom coupled with experience about love, life and �womens problems�.

Labels, cheries, make you look like a ninky nonk. And that is me being uncharacteristically childish!

Might the hostility to which you refer, just be some chatty banter? If so, you could just report it for being �chat�. Or if you think it is hostile and abusive, then report it for that?

[bum crack]

The childishness of which I speak has no direct affect on myself. I was merely enquiring as to why this was happening. If it is a private joke between users then that is fine. My question has been asnwered.

[taliesin238]

Life would be very boring without a bit of silliness!! I do agree that some people on here take it too far and i dont like bad language on here!! If i find it necassary to swear then i think *** are acceptable!!

I do see your pointto a certain axtent but having a name like 'bum crack' is kinda contradictory, dont u think???

[bum crack]

I have explained my username and it shouldn't be an issue now. I am entitled to post a serious question regardless of my name am I not?