Inadequate info about my man...

[joe_s_angel]

I happen to have met my soldier just recently. but all i know about him is his first name, date of birth, rank and very little about his unit. Is there a website that i can log into and find more details about him?

[DTCwordfan]

irony, not iron, how ironical...

[joe_s_angel]

I do not need to defend myself here, or my man. As I also don’t need to create tension with anyone here. I just know what I know deep inside my heart, and will wait for my man happily, strongly, and with more LOOOOVVVVEEEEEEEE

[ummmm]

Just don't get too upset when he doesn't contact you again...

[joe_s_angel]

ummmm but he still contacts me !!!

[boxtops]

Angel - relationships when people are on leave from deployment can be very intense, it makes you realise what you are missing when you are out in the field. If it's real, wait for him coming come after his tour of duty, see what happens then. If he wants you to, he'll be able to give you an address for you to send mail to him wherever he is. Mail from home is important.

[Prudie]

Angel you don't need to defend yourself but most people answering will have had experience of being in love and being blind to anything else. I think we are trying to protect you from getting hurt. I'm cynical enough to say if he hasn't told you his surname he either doesn't want you to be able to trace him or find out things about him and I can only see negative reasons for that. Take care anyway.

[The-HouseHusband]

Hopefully a bit of friendly advice from an ex-soldier.

Quite a few younger lads like the thought they have someone waiting back home and the comfort of getting lots of mail while serving on Op's. Unfortunately until he comes back and shows it is serious all you can do is keep on going as you are and hold on to the positive thoughts.
99% of squaddies are decent hard working men and women who want to do their bit for the country and will come back to their loved ones, no matter how long or short the relationship has been running. I met my wife xmas 1990 and got shipped out to the first gulf war 8 days later, we were apart over 10 months but have now been married for 18 years......

[Ellie2210]

Hi luv, I have done the exact same thing. you are not on your own - I think there are plenty of us out there. Let me know how you get on .... the way forwars for me is to go is the police. I have been a silly girl .....

[joe_s_angel]

Hi Ellie
So tell me what did you do?
In my case as i mentioned earlier, we are taking it slow, he is concerned if something happened to him i would be hurt, so he is telling me just enough info. Honeslty, i am happy with this "enough", only at times when i miss him badly, i check google and try to find a piece of info, or photo, etc.. to feel connected