My Good Old Mums Response To The Budget
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.You can't. Could she stop you doing something you wanted to do? Tell her what you think - just once - then let it rest. If it all goes horribly wrong, be there to give her a shoulder to cry on, that's what friends are for, but don't say 'I told you so'. If it all goes right, you'll get a wedding invitation.
(I'm assuming here you're the same sex and more or less of age - if not, other issues arise.)
If your friend is under 16 make sure she gets advice from her GP. Under age sex is illegal, but if you see a Doctor for contraception he or she is duty bound not to tell your parents without your consent.
As far as the advice from everyone else is concerned, they're right. All you can do is be a friend and be there for her whether or not things go as she planned them to. If you say too much now you risk losing her friendship.
You could try asking yourself what she would do if the situation was reversed, it might help!
I don't think you can or should stop her. People need to learn from their own mistakes and its her life not yours. If this is what she wants to do then whats wrong with it? All you can do is let her know you are there for her if anything goes wrong. Be a friend. Is there more to this? Why don't you want her to sleep with this guy? Are you jealous? Do you fancy him at all?