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pericat | 22:08 Thu 17th Sep 2009 | Parenting
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Can you tell me if you have experience of adoption or being adopted if it is a good idea for the birth father to have contact. There are 3 choices here 1 no contact 2 letters, photos etc or 3 visits. As an adopted child which is preferable ? Any views ?
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Not at all pip - thanks for your input. I think for the mother it's either keep the baby or adoption with no contact. My son went to meeting with adoption society today and was told if baby is to be adopted he could choose not to see it, to exchange letters, photos etc - which could mean that eg. the child at 6 could ask him to come to his birthday or thirdly choose to have...
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He'll be 20 in a few weeks cath - but maturity wise about 16 - the odd flash of maturity but not as mature as my 16 and 12 year old girls.
18:30 Mon 21st Sep 2009
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So pericat when I said how was your son I meant how was he in himself? He is any nearer making a decision about contact?
18:53 Mon 21st Sep 2009
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sorry cath - I read how old - need glasses - he is no nearer but he is not a decision maker its all part of his problem. He has another meeting on the 1st October with adoption agency
18:55 Mon 21st Sep 2009
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this must be very hard for everyone . It is not easy to give a child up for adoption. Best of luck to yee all
20:42 Mon 21st Sep 2009

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