if your other half was having an affair

[SLINKYKATE]

would you confront the other person,i would and i did.

[Gormless]

What's the point? If your relationship has reached the point where your partner is having sex with someone else then it's finished anyway. Walk away.

[DebsyDoo]

Totally agree with Gormy I'm afraid !!
Walk away with your head held high, it ain't worth it if he/she's got no respect for you - at least leave with your own intact !!

[funnygirl]

And what did you gain from it?????

Try looking in the mirror, that is the person you should be talking to!!!

[no-knowledge]

her other half should be the one she is talking to surely ???

[NoMercy]

I wouldn't waste my time. I would say they were welcome to each other.

[redcrx]

id confront my other half instead

[obNOXious]

No I wouldn't. the other person is totally irrelevant to the situation. The problem is between the person and their partner, the 'other' person is just a symptom of what is wrong, so a totally pointless exercise. I've always had an honest relationship anyway, when my wife decided we ought to call it a day I was the first to know about it, which in my opinion is how it should be. It's not the affair you should be worried about, it's the lack of communication.

[DingoDave]

I would just confront their dismembered heads and laugh at them as im burying them in the outback.

[SLINKYKATE]

i did walk away,this happened a long time ago,she was my babysitter,they have since married and have a child.although our marriage did'nt last,we still keep in touch and phone from time to time.

[sqad617]

Anyone can make a mistake and everyone should be given a second chance.

An affair ? what is the big deal?

[NoMercy]

Does your OH see things that way, sqad?

[angel21]

I would confront other half and tell him they are welcome to each other like NoMercy.

[sqad617]

No Mercy.......I have no idea, but yes, I suppose she does.

She had an affair an after some screming and shouting on my part, it all settled and now it isn't forgotten, but all is forgiven.

Why blast an otherwise good marriage for whay I consider to be a human failing or weakness and all is now fine........as fine as any other marriage.

[cazzz1975]

I agree with gormless

[zzxxee]

confront them and kick em to the kerb

[crazycathy2]

yeah when I took round his smelly socks and boxers to wash.

[brenda]

I'd just make sure where the bread knife was , and warn my OH not to fall asleep.!