when will people take no for an answer??

[lady_miss_v]

Hi...just need a rant really.
I'm just not sure when people are going to take no for an answer.
My ex broke up with me a year ago, for several reasons. We hadn't been getting on all that well, but the main reason was that he accused me of cheating on him (I hadn't.)
Anyway, a couple of months later, I realised I had a lucky escape and moved on, and started seeing someone else, who I'm now having a baby with.
Unfortunately, around November, my ex decided to apologise, which was all very well, but he's been bugging me ever since, telling me he's still in love with me.
Thing is, I'm obviously not interested, and have politely said No, but now I'm getting sick of his cards and texts, and him lingering outside my work.
Am just wondering if anyone knew a way to tell him to **** OFF, but politely?

[cazzz1975]

you cannot be polite, being polite has got you no where thus far, you need to tell him directly that it is over as far as you are concerned.

okay its harsh but obviously the polite trick is only making him think he can pester you round, be firm and tell him straight, he wont like it but at least he will get the message and maybe move on with his life

[lady_miss_v]

thanks, i think i'm going to have to ditch the nice approach. i'm just a bit confused because HE ended it with me