I hate my sons girlfriend do you remember??

[puddicat]

They went out together she was 15 and him 17,she was a total biatch,long story cut short,they got back together,offer the olive branch,but guess what she has **** on him again!!!

[jack daniels]

Hi puddi - you ok hun? I remember this one

You can only be there to support your son & pick up the pieces - hopefully he'll learn unfortunately, the hard way.

[puddicat]

hi jack good to hear you, i cannot believe what this so called woman has done,she got herself by into his life,and i thought was going too fast,but he loved her,so i thought if its meant to be so be it and i will reall try for them to make it work,anyway they got a cottage to rent,my son worked 50 60 hours a week to make sure they had a lovely flat to move in to,to find out she had got the landlord to change the the locks on the premise that he was violent,she hasnt put any money into the flat apart from spending his and it goes on,she wants to have the flat for herself,and is apparently knocking off her boss,even her parents are ashamed!!

[raysparx1]

Hi puddi, sorry to hear it has ended up like this, some real nasty turds in the world, it will take him a while to get over it, but then he will realise what a nasty scheming cow she is, then he will be so thankful he got out when he did, as jack says all you can do is be there to listen and be a shoulder to cry on, life is hard, but he has got to move forward cos there is no future in the past.

[sn�gged]

Your son will realise 'later' he's had a lucky escape now... all you can do is be there when he needs you... and be non-judgmental... he knows he's f@cked up, he won't want to hear it from you!

[puddicat]

hi ray but the good thing his is really lucid and not the same 17 year old,been on the fone to the landlord and now the flats his,because he said why should he trash the place he put all the fittings in, my god so proud,he is the earner she now owes thousands not him,i cant even be angry with her cos she aint worth it and he is worth millions!!!

[puddicat]

youre wrong snagged i never told him that i was happy for him!!

[sn�gged]

lol... she sounds like the bitch from hell :-(

[raysparx1]

He sounds very sensible puddi, you must be very proud, that wheel keeps turning and soon some great big bird is going to sh1t all over her. he has got his head screwed on the right way, and it is a very valuable lesson, luckily there are more decent girls in the world than nasty ones, he will get there, just tell him not to change. take care and good luck, Ray xx

[puddicat]

snagged that lady loosely called,got back with my son and he loved her,she did not hardly work,not going to uni but claiming the money,spending his money,and lying about him being violent to her,he would kiss her feet if she asked!!!

[sn�gged]

Apparently you can write bitch...

[legendis.god]

Who did she lie to about him being violent to her?

Why would someone do that ?

[puddicat]

Funny how years changed him,he is now a man,dont see him crying,dont see him not sleeping,appetite a bit iffy,but even her sister and mum and dad thinks she is not the dog ********,she is so devious,she must be quaking in her boots whoo hoo!!!

[puddicat]

legend she wanted the flat for herself,so told the landlord he was violent,thats why he changed the locks!!!

[legendis.god]

Why the landlord?

Surely youd tell the police?
Exactly what the landlord can do i am puzzzled by.
If her name is on the rent book and she wasa a joint tenant then the landlord cant just chuck her out without taking legal steps.


Well so id imagine.

Im sure someone could say here.

English and scottish laws vary i think

[puddicat]

legend calm down, they never even got to move in together she got what she wanted the spoilt liittle madam, and had other plans,had to inform the landlord very loosely seems to be either soft or dyslexic!!!

[puddicat]

I think friend of the family???

[pinktwink]

yes i remember tghis and my advice was to stay out and let your son live his own life not the one you want him to. What I don't get is why you spend so much of your time and energy on your sons partner given you don't like her. Seems yo are trying to control your sons life . He is an adult now the best thing you can do is butt out and alow him make his own choices without your comments. Perhaps you could take up a hoppy to pass the time more productfully