this question depends entirley on the individual answering.
each answer would in effect be different. its too philosophical for a straight forward simple to the point answer.
i see this question as one that deals with choice to an extent. im reminded of the way marriage works. one partner wants the other to be a specific person all the time, everytime. yet throughout time, people naturally change. as a result, the question arises...
"do i want to be what you want me to be all the time?"
its almost like giving yourself to someone, and then changing your mind...
"do i want to be what you want me to be all the time?"
just like marriage...
thats what i first thought...not bad concidering im at work!