my friend's online cheat

[meredith101]

my friend fell in love with this guy who she met online. she really thought he was amazing and was dying to meet up with him. she has just called me in tears to say she has found out through a friend that he has been in a relationship for months now with someone else he met online. I told her to calm down and just confront him about it, but she is very angry and says she wants to take revenge on him. I am really worried that she may do something harsh. What kind of guy does this? Do you think she will break the law when she seeks revenge? I am worried that she may do so. What should I tell her?

[sleepyj]

tell her to grow up !

[Gill 05]

That's the chance you take online unfortunately.

[bobtheturkey]

tell her the darts are back on thursday night game on

[cazzz1975]

you win some you lose some, she shouldnt waste anymore time on him, plenty of nice fish and lorne sausages in the sea

[haysi06]

Her best 'revenge' would be to move on and forget about him. He is not worth her tears.

[pastafreak]

It is the chance you take in any relationship,actually.

[weeal]

its a risk whether online or not, but easier for the RATS to do it via the web i think

[haysi06]

P.S.
Cazz.....Lorne sausages? WTF - LOL!

[Gill 05]

Legend = lorne sausage?

[haysi06]

I'm sorry Gill matey you have lost me!

[leelapops]

cazzz is Lorne sausage the new in-joke now?! *lol*

Sorry meredith. Unfortunately, the online world is really hard to suss out sometimes. It is a shame that he has taken advantage of your friend like this. Why doesn't she wait til she has calmed a bit, and then write him a realyl scorching letter?
x

[Gill 05]

Haysi, check out invisibles thread

[haysi06]

Will do it tomorrow matey, am away to watch the Terminator3 film. Have a great evening and see you soon Hxx

[cuddleMe]

this has happened to me, but the more i think about it now, the more im glad it ended. so tell her not to do anything stupid, she will soon realise he is not worth the hassel !!!! ive been given lots of support from ppl here and also from my friends. just b there for her :) xx

[angel-cake]

I dont really understand your comment of "do you think she will break the law when she seeks revenge"

It is a really odd thing to say. If you dont know that answer how can anyone on here. Has she done silly things in the past or something?

[meredith101]

yes sorry she has been cheated on twice in the past and recived a caution from the police after she keyed his car and coverd it in paint stripper and another time started a hate mail campaign including bombardin him with messages in his email. She also tried to set his dog on fire outside their house but they couldn't pin that on her. I was asked about it by the police but couldnt dob on my mate. So u can see where i'm coming from, i fear that she may do somit silly this time again.

[dustinmyeye]

She tried to set fire to his dog ??

Sounds like she should step away from the computer and talk to someone before she causes someone serious harm.

[trevt0m]

meredith101 you dont half write some chite are you real