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skyla002 | 12:36 Fri 17th Aug 2007 | Relationships & Dating
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I am really confused with wether my boss is flirting with me or just being friendly:
He winks at me
He walks past me, looks me in the eye and then smiles
I passed him a recept the other day and he practically took my hand with it (Slid his hand down my hand)as he looked me in the eye and said "Thanks Skyla"
Walked past me the other day and quickly dragged hus hand across my shoulder
Another co-worker who my boss has been friends with for a long time said my boss told her he cares alot about me
Asked me to come up to his office and had a huge chat with me about random things like if i use protection, what would i do if i got pregnant, What i do in my spare time, Would i like more responsibilites with my job? is everythign alright?
Said when they sell the buisness one day that they are taking me with them
Always commenting me, saying im a bloody good worker.
Whne i went on holiday, he told me to be naughty but be carefull.

Soooo...is he flirting??

He is 40 and im 18 and i find him so insanley attractive.

Do you think he could just be a really nice guy, who cares about me and is just trying to help me?
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He sound like a slimeball to me! A bloke old enough to be your dad asking whether you use protection and what would you do if you got pregnant? Yuk! Tell him to mind his own business.

He should know better at his age and especially with being a Manager he is in a position of trust. Is he married by any chance?
Can you speak russian?
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Yeah he is married.
But he may have just been asking me what would i do if i got pregnant because he wants to make me a manager and because i am quite young maybe he is just worried that ill be silly and go get my self pregnant and stuff up my job?
the guy's slime as previously mentioned, no boss worth his salt would make an 18 year old a manager.

Face it love, he was just perving- run a mile!
and what have you been a member of since march 22nd?
You haven't got a link to myface where we could watch all this 'hot' action, have you ?
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I have no idea why that membe since 22 march thing is there
ooh lets hope its a new thing ED has put on so we know if they are hiding behind another username
Boo means your question title - it is 'Member since: March 22, 2007'

And to answer your question...there is a chance he could be genuine but not a very high one. If I was you I would stay well clear. He's married...if he's not happy he needs to split up with his wife. Don't help him be a cheat, you'll ruin his wife, and even worse children if he has any.
i don't want to sound too generalistic, but I think a lot of men of that age would love to think they could pull an 18 year old girl.

he sounds like a right pervy slimy git to me! find someone your own age that you have plenty in common with.
He sounds completely unprofessional - if you go along with anything, we'll be reading your letter in The Sun under Dear Deidrie - "He said he loves me, now he's gone back to his wife".

He probabaly knows you find him attractive and he's just flattering his ego. People at work - no matter how much they care - should be enquiring as to if you use protection. It's inappropriate.
think he could be a nice guy or maybe Not? who cares about you and its nice to feel wanted and have some attention every now and then....
But he is you boss afterall, so its better to stay good friends and keep his trust and your distance rather than risk it all on an affair or whatever you have in mind atm... its not worth it! It would never work and you'll be the one who'll probably gt the sack in the end! :(
PS- who knows, if he likes you a lot, as an employee ofcourse, you might even get promoted next year ! ;)
do you wear short skirts and have blond hair ?
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No i dont have blonde hair its brown and i wear black work pants
omg!
i know this is a bit late but the exact same thing is happenin to me!
my boss is a total flirt, but i also work with his wife and his 3 yr old kid.
im 17 and he's 42, and we work in very close proximity.
he is constantly touching me.
i know how you feel.
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charlotte247 can you add me on [email protected]
Cuz i really need to talk to someone about all this.
hey!
yeah my email is [email protected]
gimme a email
:)
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