How much would you put up with from your partner?

[Sasha13]

What is crossing the line for you?

a.) Talking to other men/women
b.) Texting other men/women
c.) Meeting other men/women for a drink (just the two of them)
d.) Kissing another man/woman (on the cheek)
e.) Kissing them on the mouth (peck)
f.) Kissing them on the mouth (full on)
g.) Sleeping with another man/woman

[dmj]

Talking to is fine , texting would depend who it was, anything after that is crossing the line. Why have burgers when you have steak at home???

[radiogaga]

narrowing it down, for me id have to draw the limit at d)
anything more is just a total disregard for you, as their partner.
whats yours Sasha13 ?

[weeal]

I agree with dmj, hope my ex-boyfriend is reading this !!!

[RATTER15]

Personally I think it depend on the person and their character but generally speaking I would say the last three were out of the question!! I would have no objection to my partner meeting up with a male friend.

It also depends on who this friend is as well, is it mutual friend or someone the partner has met recently etc.

if you both trust each other it shouldn't be a problem.

[Sasha13]

For me it depends on whether it's the start of a relationship or you're further in.

My ex that I was with for 5 years I would have had no prob him going up to e.

The guy that I started seeing not long ago I found out (by deception mmmwwwhahahahah (that was my evil laugh btw)) that he's gone up to c. and it's driving me crazy - even though I'm not sure that it should!

[ojread2]

from a through to e it would depend entirely on the relationship with the person.

they would not get away with a full on snog or sex with them!

[weeal]

my ex told me I was paranoid, that it was "just the way things are done now" I think he was extracting the Michael

[Goodsoulette]

f... I cant see how I could be annoyed at the others.

Even then, if its a drunken snog I wouldnt be dumping them over it.

[Goodsoulette]

So when I went away for a weekend with a totally platonic male friend whilst with my ex would have been totally out f the question for you guys then?

[Sasha13]

I'm with you on that one Godsoulette - I say up to e. with my ex but if I'd found out it had gone to f. in a moment of drunkness I'm not sure I'd have got that wound up about it.

[legend758duo]

up to d i think would be ok.
but again depends on the person /situation really.

never any set rules in a relationship.

if there are then someone will end up breaking them , need some flexibility : - )

[Whickerman]

Up to e if I knew about it up front.

Anything fromb on if they were doing it ins ecret