my ex said he still loves me

[sleepyj]

i have had a lot off problems in the last year with my partner i said i had had enough and its over . been with him 17 half years . today he said he still loves me i now feel guilty that i dont think i love him no longer . half of me says yes i only care about him . but i feel really bad hurting him like that . but why should i stay with him cos i feel bad ? thanks

[LittleMissxx]

17 years, !!! gees,... only ben with mine 5 months !!

[LittleMissxx]

been****

[redhead23]

sleepy -
you should not stay with him coz u feel bad or gulity !!! come on girl get with it , you shoule be with him coz he makes u happy , u enjoy being with etc , 17 years is a long time and mabye thats why you having such a hard time letting go , but the fact that u have to ask tells red you know the answer but want reassurance from us punks xxx

[stokeace]

he cant make you love him sleepyj only you know how you feel in your heart just do what you think is the best for YOU.good luck.

[laurencelolo]

problems? tell me.I have been married for the last 24 years . B****y hell do we deserve a medal for that one too?
Men can become selfish in their own old ways and becomes afraid when we show we can stands on our two feets eh?
After giving away our life, body and soul what is left????
Marriage or relationship do not work by themself and it is up to us to make it work but it is hard work.
If you still care it is normal cos you can not erase 17 years like that i cant. but if love is no longer there ?????????
be strong and THINK of yourself now, i know what to do myself and good luck to you and your future.

[sleepyj]

thank you thats so kind xxxxxxxxx

[laurencelolo]

did that help a little sleepy?

[sleepyj]

yes thanks . itsover with him now i cant take any more problems . need to be apart and sort my life out . i have been with him 18 years this june im only 35 . so thats half my llife

[laurencelolo]

rings a bell just like me.
told the old git had enough and wants it out.
said the same thing still loves me but call me a old trout.
sod.
i go to work 6 days out of 7 after having sold my business
and no holidays [long story]
he is at home , sit in a chair all day and call himself disabled. he is unwell but not that cripple.
i walk around 6 miles a day to go to work and back, do quick shopping and cook, my day is finished at 10.30 pm every day. call that love??????? all the bloody same!
i am a fool i am starving for attention, softness,respect and i bet you do too.

[sleepyj]

just peace i want

[laurencelolo]

just thinking of you! there.
A BIG HUG FOR YOU