hi guys me and my fella had a big row last night which was totally my fault. what happened was we were Ahem,,,, getting jiggy hehe, and i could here my phone going of as a message (now my neice is in hospital having some tests) so i wanted to check to see if was any news , anyway i looked at my phone and it was my mate (who my bf doesnt no)!!, anyway i went back upstairs and i just said oh it was my mum, just so i didnt have to explain who this mate was as we were in the middle of something!!, anyway a bit later on when i went for a bath, my fella read my messages and said whos sarah(the mate who txt me) so i explained and he said are you sure about that, i said yeh why, he said so why did u tell me that txt was from your mum when it wasnt!! so it looks like im hiding something do u no what i mean? but really i just couldnt be bothered to go through who it was. now he thinks this person is another man, so we rung her last night and it was her obviously, but he said if i lied to him about who it was what else am i lying about!, iv told him hes reading to much into it. but he says i dont no if i can trust you now. and we havnt spoken since. so my question is i wanna make it up to him, but without looking like im in the wrong and im lying about who this person is? (i no messed up ;o( )
He only got annoyed that you lied it was your mum!! How could you check for phone when you were getting jiggy!! Sammmmm I'm ashamed of you :-) If you dont want to be in the wrong then just ignore it all and he'll soon get over it.
think there is a bit of overreacting from him in all this but i agree with him that there was no need to lie and just tell him it was your mate.
id imagine he wont be upset for to long but dont do anything to over the top as that might seem u have something to hide just cook him a nice dinner or something
it'll be fine x
4get hehe- the only reason i looked at my phone was to check if was news from the hospital, we hadnt actually started ahem,,,, we were getting into it if you no what i mean.!! and i did tell him of for looking at my messages. but it was just easier to say it was my mum at the time!