Here's A Idea If Your Stuck On A Christmas Gift

[Bobbisox1]

Asda's personalised calendars, A4 or A3 wall ones, online , all you do is add photos of your choice ie family or friends, I did one last week for my friend who lost her husband in August, it's photos of their holidays and of Christmas before he became ill, I'm over the moon with the result , I used A3 and with P&P it was £16-75 , I'm sure she's going to love it , it came yesterday

[emmie]

Sounds a good idea Bobbi, i bought my friends a calendar last Christmas, one of the Countryfile ones, so much went to Children in Need appeal

[Bobbisox1]

The front is a full page cover of the two of them ,same as the back then it's of holidays we've shared but the photos are just of the two of them together

[gulliver1]

I don't think she will somehow.I did a similar thing like that once, big mistake , Wait a few more months, until she is stronger, for that one.

[anneasquith]

A bit early to have her husband on a calendar .

[bednobs]

Dont be surprised if she doesn't love it as much as you think. My daughter died in Jan and we had received a calendar for Christmas before she died and I'm afraid to say I had to take it down as it just upset me more

[Bobbisox1]

I'm sure she will Gulliver ,I did the large photo for his casket and she wanted that on her wall, she asked also if I'd take the DVDs to hers that I did of our many holidays , for her to watch

[Bobbisox1]

I'm sorry to hear that bednobs

[gulliver1]

You do it your way ,you know best.

[anneasquith]

A picture of his casket for a Xmas calendar ?
?

[Bobbisox1]

No I don't know best but I do think it's the way for each individual and how they'd perceive it, and for her I know she will like it

[Bobbisox1]

What the hell you on about AA , as if ,sighhhhhh

[anneasquith]

Nearly a year bednobs? Awful .

[emmie]

Bobbi, you know her best, do what you think is right..We had a lovely picture of my mum which was placed on her casket. I now have that on my wall, a lovely reminder of happier times.

[Bobbisox1]

That seems to be the thing now Emmie doesn't it ?

[Bobbisox1]

I'll let you know ;0)

[iluvmargie]

I was going to say that maybe it was a tad too soon Bobbi - her first Christmas without him, but I wouldn't be as mean spirited as one of the comments. I just wouldn't have wanted you to be disappointed, but like you say, you know her best x

[Bobbisox1]

Yes I know her very well ILM, so much so that she'd like and cherish it