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jennyjoan | 00:19 Mon 25th Jun 2018 | ChatterBank
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thanks Mamy - that's the one -

In one fell swoop - altho it has taken months of preparation for renewal, passports, lots of pills. She had said but to be honest I couldn't believe her - said son-in-law was coming from America to bring her back to America - now that I didn't believe but there ya go it was true.

Guess what she has gone to America - guess how long - for 6 months.

I think her son couldn't cope anymore and was torturing his sister to try and help or do something about it.

So she went last Wednesday - as you know I had been down about two weeks previous and initially she was pretty confused but when I left she became much much better. Later that week my own sister rang and was saying about me being down and she (friend) - Jenny has been here in years.

She never rang goodbye - too confused, and I won't be ringing as after all she can't remember.

Do you any of you think this was a good move. The daughter and her sorta didn't have a great bond when they lived here. But there are 5 children (teens) who can give a hand (help). Do you think she'll be ok there.
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^^^Jenny hasn't been down in years
Although it's quite a journey, being surrounded by people who care may just be good for her - let's hope so.
I'm sure she'll be fine if the family has organised it Jennyjoan. you could always send her a little postcard or something to cheer her up x
Certainly sounds like your visit cheered her JJ.
JJ, you've been a good friend & done your best by her - it's her family's turn now.
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well I'm hoping too Mamy that being surrounded by people may stimulate her as she was just wasting away here except for getting her hair done.

I also am a little unnerved for her in that will she wonder "why am I - I want to see my son" etc. But I too think it will help her.

Mamy my visit didn't help as all these arrangements had been done in the past 3 months before she went. Son (oddball) lives upstairs never came down that night to say to me. But there ya go.
It's difficult, but let's hope it turns out for the best JJ.
just a tip jenny, if you put jennyjoan in the search box you'll find all your threads
It sounds as if your friend will be better looked after with her son and family.
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Anne - son in law and daughter. Thanks Ael
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Do you think they got her insurance on her illness or pay for a doctor on demand. Will doctors be annoyed that there is an azheilmers patient on this or what will that do per se.
At the very top right of the AB page there is an option to view your profile. This will bring up all your questions and answers.
I'd try not to worry about what's happening in America JJ, there's really nothing you can do about it anyway.
Healthcare in U.S. is good if you pay. They have freelance nurses and it all adds up.
The fact there are kids who can help is a bonus as folks still have to go to work. I am helping out as my cousin does not live with my aunt, she also has a high powered job and her own family.
It's probably been removed by some of he no marks on here -)
Just be reassured she's with people who care - glad I could find the thread for you too.x

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