Rather than add bits on other posters threads for those that follow the Rowan and Red story things are a bit better today. He's not dead yet and plans to be around for a while. He will be seeing his own oncology team soon with a view to having some radiotherapy to control the neurological symptoms. They have found a brain on scanning which is a big surprise to us all.
Although he won't be able to get out and about for a while at least he is able to nag me, and that is a relief.
I know how you feel. My mum was offered radiotherapy on brain secondaries. I chose not to go down that road but she was in a different situation than your husband is. The thing with these options is that they give you hope and buy you time and that is valuable and I`m sure you know that. Good luck.