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Thanks everyone, all of your answer help. I think your all right in a way, i do love my gf lots, but not as a partner, as a very good friend. The older woman at work is probably just a fantasy...and i doubt anything will happen. I cant explain the reasoning behind it, i feel so bad because my gf is such as nice chick, and i dont know if i will find anyone as nice as her....thats why i cant understand the doubt in my mind. But i will see what happens. Thanks again folks