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Nailit exactly.. I am a person who stands by the saying "action speak louder than words".. I rarely spoke to friend 1, but after my actions of going to his events, offering him for coffee etc.. making the real action he looked me in the eye last weekend and said i really appreciate you coming, if no one turned up i'd probably be in tears at the bar alone.
It hit me a bit.. My friends are suppose to be closer to friend 1.. it makes me thing what if it was I that was going?