What part of NO

[queenofmean]

do men not understand.....answers on a postcard please

[jno]

the O

[ChuckFickens]

The N

[queenofmean]

so all of it then?

[ChuckFickens]

Serious answer...

decent men understand NO. if you've found somebody that doesn't please don't tar us all with that.

[owdhamer]

Que?

[sunny-dave]

As chuck says - if he doesn't understand the concept of 'NO' then trade him in for someone who does ...

[MarkRae]

I don't understand the question, as no woman has ever said 'no' to me...

Ahem...

[queenofmean]

I'm not tarring anybody. I've been on my dating website account and he is a very nice person but sadly not for me but he won't accept that I don't want to meet or swap numbers

[jno]

oh, online, nobody's normal online. He may not even be male. Is there some sort of button you can click that will deliver an electric shock through his keyboard?

[MarkRae]

Surely there must be some sort of ignore or report facility...?

[queenofmean]

I can block him....its getting to that point

[ChuckFickens]

Then block him, if a polite "no thanks" isn't listened to then don't hesitate to block, you don't owe them anything.

[owdhamer]

Have you tried starts with f ends with f

[Barmaid]

Tsh! You should learn. All men are "clever deaf". They hear what they need to hear.

[queenofmean]

haha....i've muttered it a few times owd....taken on board Barmaid and Chuck

[Barmaid]

OK, sorry, I didn't read your last post QoM. If he won't take "no" for an answer either just ignore him or block him.

[Barmaid]

You could try "shaming him". I've done that a few times. You say something like "It is not going to work. I have said I don't want to meet/swap numbers and you won't listen. It is important to me that the man I meet listens. You don't. So flump off".

[firewatch]

heck knows, mine dosnt understand it!!!!

[queenofmean]

good idea Barmaid....thanks for the tip
LOL firewatch

[jomifl]

So not completely nice then as he won't take no for an answer. From a male viewpoint 'no' is the default reply of a female thus giving the male an opportunity to think up all kinds of bribes and inducements in order for the reply to change to 'maybe' or 'perhaps' or even 'yes please'. You on the other hand could qualify 'no' with 'not in a million years' as a hint that you will not change your mind.