Birdie, I don’t think anyone should be surprised at any question here evolving into further discussion, and if by ‘known atheists’ you’re referring to me, I have not leapt down his throat and neither have I torn ‘metaphorical strips off him’. I’ve simply pointed out that his gesture, however generous, may not be received in the spirit it is intended; I’ve explained my reasons, and since he says he doesn’t want to upset the recipient, I’ve suggested he give it further thought. I have, however, taken issue with Ann86 who said //You just have to ignore the comments which can be a bit harsh and take heart from those who do agree with your comments. The majority of AB users are nice kind, caring people.// implying that those who do not fully support the plan are the opposite.
As for atheists doing themselves no favours, sycophancy, even though it may be deemed more acceptable to those who hold opposing opinions, is a dubious quality, and not one that I would ever wish to adopt.