Is there a psychologist out there?

[rosamundjohn]

Quote:
I want to live alone. I enjoy my own company .I am not interested in other people if they are not useful to me. I don't like to socialise as most people just talk rubbish.

Comments please?

[skyep]

andrea - So you take your 'zone' with you! lol xxx

[raysparx1]

right serious answer, My wife works in a shop, she is really chatty, outgoing always smiley and happy, I am working all day long with people, love chatting etc, but when we get home the last thing my wife wants to do is chat to other people, all she wants to do is kick off her shoes put on some comfortable clothes and relax watching some crap on the tele or we listen to some music and we chat to each other, as we have got little older this is more of a pattern, when we go down to the local pub, we like to just sit quietly and chat, BY ourselves, is this normal or are we ODD ?

[Bathsheba]

No ray , not odd at all! But you've gotta say I'm not odd for hating holidays! x

[unrulyjulie]

I thought you pair didnt say a lot when i visited ray? ;-)

I have to be in the mood to talk to others to be honest, i enjoy my own company and i have a very very chatty 4 year old so when he's in bed, i love the quietness of being with "just me"

[raysparx1]

Daft thing is, Julie came to visit us for few days and it was like we had known her for years, and my wife loved her, thougfht she was great and had never even spoken to her, bar 2 quick phone calls, they chatted for hours when julie got here.life is odd innit.

[skyep]

No ray, you're not odd! Sounds completely right! Cosy in fact! xxx

[raysparx1]

Bloody witch, lol, how ya doing lovely one? xx

No bath not everybody loves holidays, I do, I could do holidays as a job, but I am not bothered about making friends on holiday. xx

[raysparx1]

Not you being a witch skippy, its that julie woman, xx

[unrulyjulie]

who you calling a witch raysparx??? lol Not me i hope!

If i get another invite, you do realise its mrs sparx im coming to see dont ya? You were just there to light the fires and pour the champagne ;-)


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[Octavius]

Errrrr, I disappear for five seconds and you lot start forming a social club and leave me out.

I am not entirely convinced this is what rosamund</> intended, although it may well help towards here psychology course � who knows.

Most people here seem content with their lot and relatively self-contained within their own family/social unit, but rosamund refers to complete isolation with not even one other as company, completely without friends. I don�t think anyone here is quite that extreme? Ok, maybe legend, but anyone else?

[Octavius]

Well jigger me sideways, I used too much ink.

[raysparx1]

Sorry Octavius, gold pass for you, legend is in a class of his own, don't understand half what he is on about.

You got it julie, I would wait on you all day, you know that anyway, gonna get plenty campagne in for you, and crumpets by the fire, you know where the key is, just get the kettle on xx

[leelapops]

And I am still giggling at "Crouching Tiger, Hidden Bananie"! x

[leelapops]

skyep, thanks! Bath, no we don't! *lol* Fancy meeting you here...Come here often? ;)
andrea, are you implying that some people actually TALK to their...oh, erm, well... *hides, like a huddle of ABers in a kitchen when an unexpected caller arrives*!!

I feel great on holiday, which reminds me I would really love one!

x

[unrulyjulie]

dont tempt me ray, i might just go an order my train ticket.

[skyep]

The naked ape! Let's not go too deep!
I will adopt ' well jigger me sideways' lol!!! excellent!

[leelapops]

Oh and Lottie, too, sorry! Thanks. It is nice to see a thread that's just a bit different but that everyone has experience to share on. x