I've Been De Friended!!

[silliemillie]

One of my friends has de friended me on Facebook.
To my shame I have only just noticed.
Thought I hadnt seen her posting of late (about a week) when she was always on several times a day before that.

went to click on her name to ask her if she was OK only to see she has de friended me.

Cant think of anything I could have done or said to offend her but do you think I should contact her and ask or leave it up to her to let me know if & when she feels fit!

We are middle age women not kids! I dont think I can be bothered to play guessing games.

[China Doll]

Leave her to it.

[ChuckFickens]

OH well....

[society]

Probably she was cleaning 'house', and it was nothing personal.

[longshadows]

Sheet happens

[SlackAlice]

No big deal and she has got you playing guessing games or you wouldn't have posted here. Wouldn't worry about it.

[4getmenot]

is she actually still on there ?

[DTCwordfan]

Simone De Beauvoir,

"One's life has value so long as one attributes value to the life of others, by means of love, friendship, indignation and compassion."

Not really worth effort unless she values you. I she did, she would have sought you out to explain her problem.

[Sharingan]

I once accidentally 'culled' my one sister when I was getting rid of flotsam that I didn't really know and that didn't post anything relevant on Facebook. Maybe she got you accidentally?

[DTCwordfan]

If she did.....

[DTCwordfan]

"Culling" some of my family would be a very pleasing exercise, Shari.
:-)

[Mojo-Jo-Jo]

People have Facebook clearouts.
If you haven't spoken for a while she probably deleted you along with a few others.
I do it and so do lots of people I know. Don't take it personally. I don't.
That being said, if my friends turn out to be racist, bigoted or a*holes to other people, they're gone, but I tell them why, publicly.

[jomifl]

As you said you are middle aged women not kids...it isn't a big deal, in fact it amounts to almost nothing.

[Sharingan]

Yes and mine DTC, just not her :)

[silliemillie]

Yeah, I think I will leave her to it, she can contact me if she wants but SlackAlice is right I must be a little bit curious or I wouldnt have asked.

[Answerprancer]

Had you not contacted her for a while?
If she means a lot to you, message her and say hello, then try to re-friend her.

[tamborine]

As AP says, re-friend her then defriend her - lol

[Answerprancer]

Oi! I didn't say that!

[Answerprancer]

That's like a disgruntled employee telling his boss "I quit!" and the boss saying "No you don't ... you're fired!"

[society]

lol @ Tambo

[tamborine]

just my add on AP ;)