Did anyone else think

[brenda]

that on entering a serious relationship with a partner , there were things about that person that you could change?

I thought so and on a scale of 0 to 10 , scored minus 150!!
Total abject failure,

[puddicat]

brenda you cant change or mould anyone!!!

[obNOXious]

NEVER try to change someone. It's not fair on them, not fair on you and you'll ALWAYS fail. Love someone for what they are or move on until you can find someone that you do.

[hailthechimp]

puddicat
Tue 10/03/09
17:22 brenda you cant change or mould anyone!!!

Puddicat please invent a time machine and tell that to every woman ive ever been with !

[ianfran]

brenda - agree with puddi - a leopard can't change its spots - once a dips**t always a dips**t - take your choice - you MAY change their opinions on trivial little things but the main ones - forget it - it's in their soul,baby!
( i'm easy to live with,hint hint )

[cazzz1975]

people dont change, the only thing you have to change is you opinion that you can change someone!

[craft1948]

I took mine back to M&S and got a refund......

[sqad617]

craft....so what did you do with your 5p M&S voucher?

[craft1948]

got a new man obviously sqad..

[craft1948]

they're very cheap in Yorkshire - don't you know....

[sqad617]

craft.....you were robbed...5p for a Yorkshirman ????

[carrust]

Oi! squid. I'm worth twice as much!!

[sqad617]

Ah!!!!!! yes.....carrust.......West Yorkshire....bit diferent. LOL

P.S Where have you been today?

[hailthechimp]

AAhh yorkshire,home of the puddings and ferrets.

[carrust]

Working nights. So I've been in bed.

[craft1948]

excuse me sqad - are you saying North Yorkshire is cheap (isn't that where you met your wife)

[carrust]

& Arthur Scargill chimp.

[sqad617]

lol lol lol....yes.

[craft1948]

god don't mention Scargill carrust - I'd rather be known for the puddings.....

[tamborine]

Dont often discover idiosyncracies till it's too late ;(

[sqad617]

craft....well she threw herself at me, so I thought that she deserved a chance. Hosed her down, arranged elocution lessions, sent her to Cordon Bleu lessons and she "aint dun bad"