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really peed off
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Ok so I've been waiting to hear results on my boyfriends tests for the lump he has found, bearing in mind he has had cancer before I was quite worried, anyway they said on 10th he would here from docs in a week so today 2 weeks later I rang docs myself and they said no he should make an appointment himself and then said xrays were all fine, so maybe thats why they didnt contact. Jeez. But whats peed me more off is that I rang my bloke after getting him appointment today and he said he wouldnt bother going.
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doesnt surpise me. The doctors and the whole system in this county is a joke. My wife was having major pains at night. The doc said it was a pulled muscle and referred her to a physio. We didnt think it was muscular. A few days later she went yellow with Jaundice and was diagnosed with Gall Stones. That what as causing the pain. And because the doc diagnosed it wrong, one of the stines got stuck causing her jaundice.
Absolute joke. Docs aint got a blooming clue mate!
Good to hear that your bf is good though!
Absolute joke. Docs aint got a blooming clue mate!
Good to hear that your bf is good though!
well the xrays were ok but I still want him to have appointment because what is the lump. they said his heart and lungs are ok. He doesnt seem to understand it will put my mind at rest if he just goes. my mates just been disgnosed as pulling a muscle, but she thinks its more and can feel it inside her.
tell him to go to find out, explain that you are worried.
Im not surprised the hosp and GP havent bothered letting him know, i think its appalling even without his history. Same hospital have just given me appt to get babys first set of jabs done next monday. She had them done last week! Good job Im clued up, another mother may have made mistake of going twice.
Im not surprised the hosp and GP havent bothered letting him know, i think its appalling even without his history. Same hospital have just given me appt to get babys first set of jabs done next monday. She had them done last week! Good job Im clued up, another mother may have made mistake of going twice.
Red - they booked Emilia in for her first set of jabs at 8weeks when she was 5and a half weeks! I questioned it and they rebooked luckily, like you say though, other people might not know.
4get, I don't think he would appreciate you interfering. I can understand that you are worried, and really he has a responsibility to you to put your mind at rest but ultimately if he doesn't want to attend the appointment you have no right asking him to do so. My hubby is very much like that, but he also knows he will get a big fat raised eyebrow and "I told you so" from me if it turns out he should have gone to the docs / hospital (which has happened on several occasions, although not cancer related but include broken ribs, asthma attacks, severe eczema, damaged cartilige, torn ligaments, gashes that required stitching or gluing ... etc etc.... and none of which were caused by me I hasten to add.
Why did you ring the docs today 4get? Didn't he even want the results of the tests? Perhaps he ought to pursue some sort of counselling if the thought of future test results scare him that much, understandably so at the thought ot recurring cancer.
4get, I don't think he would appreciate you interfering. I can understand that you are worried, and really he has a responsibility to you to put your mind at rest but ultimately if he doesn't want to attend the appointment you have no right asking him to do so. My hubby is very much like that, but he also knows he will get a big fat raised eyebrow and "I told you so" from me if it turns out he should have gone to the docs / hospital (which has happened on several occasions, although not cancer related but include broken ribs, asthma attacks, severe eczema, damaged cartilige, torn ligaments, gashes that required stitching or gluing ... etc etc.... and none of which were caused by me I hasten to add.
Why did you ring the docs today 4get? Didn't he even want the results of the tests? Perhaps he ought to pursue some sort of counselling if the thought of future test results scare him that much, understandably so at the thought ot recurring cancer.
With respect 4get, you didn't say he asked you to ring the docs you said he was expecting a call a week ago and then you rang today, I must have misunderstood.
I agree that sometimes partners need a push in the right direction, but as I said, ultimately, you can't make him attend an appointment if he doesn't want to - I suggested counselling dependant upon the reason for him not wanting to get the results himself.
Personally, as I read it and I obviously got it wrong which is why I asked the reason that you rang for results and not him, if I had to ring the docs for results for myself and I didn't want to know but my husband rang and then kept on at me to attend an appt but I didn't want to go then I would view my husband as interfering. If he mentioned it once and told me his reasons and that he was worried and would I attend an appt to put his mind at rest, then that would be enough.
I agree that sometimes partners need a push in the right direction, but as I said, ultimately, you can't make him attend an appointment if he doesn't want to - I suggested counselling dependant upon the reason for him not wanting to get the results himself.
Personally, as I read it and I obviously got it wrong which is why I asked the reason that you rang for results and not him, if I had to ring the docs for results for myself and I didn't want to know but my husband rang and then kept on at me to attend an appt but I didn't want to go then I would view my husband as interfering. If he mentioned it once and told me his reasons and that he was worried and would I attend an appt to put his mind at rest, then that would be enough.
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Yes I guess you read it wrong and assumed I had rang without consulting him, I would never do that. I was just a bit peed off that he just didn�t want todays appointment reason being he had dentist 2 hrs earlier and didn�t want to be rushed.
Stalker hello :-) You know what in these recent weeks when I�ve been down I have thought about no-one else but you and where you were :-)
Stalker hello :-) You know what in these recent weeks when I�ve been down I have thought about no-one else but you and where you were :-)
