//But over the past 12-18 months my opinion has been leave them alone and stop using them for headlines...and wishing they'd retire from the limelight both for their sakes and that of the royal family.//
If only. Harry has evolved into a professional victim and hypocrite, aided and abetted by his ghastly wife. She, having been given short shrift when she attempted to combine Netflix with Windsor, has taken to being, shall we be kind and say, "economical with the truth" (and that's being very kind).
The pair caused the Queen untold grief in her later years - grief that she did not deserve and could have done without. I would prefer they did not attend the funeral, but I imagine they will and if they do, I would expect respect and good behaviour from all those unfortunate enough to have to engage with them.
After that I would prefer it if neither of them ever sets foot on these shores again.