I don't want sympathy, just a chat.....

[Smowball]

Have had the worst 24 hrs ever - buried my mums sister yesterday(my aunt) then tonight my husband packed a suitcase and walked out. Have had to deal with an incredibly upset son, my own emotions, a splitting headache and the upset from yesterday. He may be back, who knows, but I really dont need this

On another positive note, strongly helped by Mr smirnoff, Well done in the mens doubles at Wimbledon!

[dotty.]

he left you the day after you buried your aunt? don't take him back, did he leave his cash card?

[woofgang]

Do you want him back?

[Psybbo]

Oh smow how awful, so sorry but chin up. hugs and xx

[marval]

So sorry to hear your news, take care of yourself.xx

[woofgang]

Iirc he is having a pretty tough time of it too....which doesn't help you I know..

[mrsmaveric]

how can your husband walk out on you at such an awful time smow???...mind you if he treats you in such a manner then he has no respect for you...good riddance to bad rubbish in my eyes...i tell you 1 thing for sure...if my husband treated me with such disrepect there is no way he would be stepping foot over the door ever again...hope you are ok..x

[Smowball]

He was very drunk, a total Sugar, took all his own bank cards and I only knew he had gone when I looked out of the front window and saw him getting in a taxi with 2 suitcases, he didnt even say goodbye.

Apologies for any spelling mistakes, but I have had a rather large drink for shock.

[Dee Sa]

poor you Snowball I sincerely hope things get better,keep strong for your boy's sake and think carefully do you really want OH back ? to walk out when you need him most is unforgiveable .voddy will give temporary lift off, so take care now.
Dee xx

[askyourgran]

Smow that is really the pits. Have you any idea this was going to happen? Don't drink too much, your son needs you to take the lead now. Take care of yourselves.

[hc4361]

It may sound flippant, but it's true. Everything works out for the best.

One day at a time, Smowball. Don't imagine the worst, for it probably won't happen, but be very, very selfish. Look after yourself.

[dotty.]

mmmm, so he left the car? sell it, book a holiday, change the locks.

[DaisyNonna]

Do you want him back? If not, change the locks. Keep strong. Your son needs you. We are always here to listen.

[Smowball]

Its ok guys, Im only going to have a couple of nightcaps - Im a mother, and mothers dont get time off!

He has been brewing for a fight for weeks, the more he didnt see his daughter the worse he got. Tonight he accused teen snow of weeing over toilet seat and instead of asking him to clean it, he grabbed his hand and wiped it in the wee. As you can imagine, I went mad

[Smowball]

I dont know what I want anymore, all I know is that my son has to come first - he is just a child.

[nungate]

From reading previous posts of yours Smow. I think you should think long and hard before you consider allowing him back (assuming he wants to) you have to think about the security of your son and yourself, it is unfair of him to behave in such a manner toward you both.
Take comfort in your bottle tonight but tomorrow put it away and start to make plans for your and your son's future.
Were I in your shoes my foot would be so far up his a**e he'd think he was wearing a hat!

[Smowball]

House is mine,car is mine, 95% of money in bank is his

[mrsmaveric]

when he sobers up he will be all apologetic...if anyone had treated my son in that way smow they would have been spitting their teeth out..tell him to sling his hook...

[dotty.]

was his, does he do online banking?

[Psybbo]

He's gone because he knows what he did was so wrong, almost abusive, wait for the grovelling apologie, which I'm sure will come

[Greedyfly]

What an arse. Hope things improve soon for you x